Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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undecisive about hairstyle

What is best?

  • A weird hairstyle that looks very good on you

    Votes: 6 31.6%
  • A more normal hairstyle that looks good on you

    Votes: 13 68.4%

  • Total voters
    19

Jay-X

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i don't know wether i should keep my hair as it is (it looks very good when i keep it wet and nice and my girlfriend loves it, but if i don't take care of it constantly, it gets nerdy and weird) or trim it shorter (my gf would hate me for it, but it'd look good anyway, plus i could sport different hairstyles with that length, and i shouldn't worry about it becoming messy, since it would still be cool)

what would you do if you were in this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spider_007

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I have short brown hair, and UNLESS i go out i never comb it. I wash it, blow it, and it falls down to it's place. I spike it up when i go out.
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by spider_007
I have short brown hair, and UNLESS i go out i never comb it. I wash it, blow it, and it falls down to it's place. I spike it up when i go out.
i'm wondering if i should keep it as yours, maybe just a little bit long so the curls are visible (girls seem to dig them a lot over here), but my girl says it looks better when it's pretty long... the fact is, unless i take care of it at least 2 or 3 times a day, it looks somewhere between nerdy-messy and afro...
 

Interpol

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My hair is similar to yours...Right now it's pretty short and I love how convenient it is, it always looks presentable even when I just roll out of bed...But there's definite a certain appeal to longer hair as well, and not as many guys can pull it off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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medjaun

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I tried growing mine out as requested by (now ex) wife. Like you it took a lot of care to look right. Some days looked good others not as good (I thought). So now I keep it pretty short on top and just got some clippers today so I can keep the sides nice and tight. I go for more of a euro hair look which seems to suit me best. And it's a hell if a lot more convenient.
 

Paintballguy

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I'd go with a shorter/medium length... You can always put gel or wax in it if your going out somewhere. I usually keep my sides shorter and have more hair on the top.
 
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