Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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uncovering mySELF

scottfall

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I posted something similar to this yesterday after a little bit of a breakdown.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144279

Woke up feeling lost and lonely, without the passion for change. Its just so easy being the old me, but I know it could destroy me. Good ol' self destruction like a friend feeding off my negative feelings.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guru1000

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In a nutshell,

I believe you have come the realization that you have many options available to you now.

In essence, you are no longer perceived SCARCE.

One with an abundance mindset sees the world in a new light. With unlimited perceived options, a NEW you is born. You are no longer SLAVE to your scarcity.

You are free.

This is the foundation of a Don Juan.
 

reset

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thanks guru, I think you're right.
 
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