"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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scottfall

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I posted something similar to this yesterday after a little bit of a breakdown.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144279

Woke up feeling lost and lonely, without the passion for change. Its just so easy being the old me, but I know it could destroy me. Good ol' self destruction like a friend feeding off my negative feelings.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In a nutshell,

I believe you have come the realization that you have many options available to you now.

In essence, you are no longer perceived SCARCE.

One with an abundance mindset sees the world in a new light. With unlimited perceived options, a NEW you is born. You are no longer SLAVE to your scarcity.

You are free.

This is the foundation of a Don Juan.
 
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thanks guru, I think you're right.
 
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