"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

uncovering mySELF

S

scottfall

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2007
Messages
155
Reaction score
9
I posted something similar to this yesterday after a little bit of a breakdown.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144279

Woke up feeling lost and lonely, without the passion for change. Its just so easy being the old me, but I know it could destroy me. Good ol' self destruction like a friend feeding off my negative feelings.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

guru1000

guru1000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2007
Messages
5,299
Reaction score
4,338
In a nutshell,

I believe you have come the realization that you have many options available to you now.

In essence, you are no longer perceived SCARCE.

One with an abundance mindset sees the world in a new light. With unlimited perceived options, a NEW you is born. You are no longer SLAVE to your scarcity.

You are free.

This is the foundation of a Don Juan.
 
R

reset

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2007
Messages
2,200
Reaction score
59
thanks guru, I think you're right.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top