"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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scottfall

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I posted something similar to this yesterday after a little bit of a breakdown.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144279

Woke up feeling lost and lonely, without the passion for change. Its just so easy being the old me, but I know it could destroy me. Good ol' self destruction like a friend feeding off my negative feelings.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guru1000

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In a nutshell,

I believe you have come the realization that you have many options available to you now.

In essence, you are no longer perceived SCARCE.

One with an abundance mindset sees the world in a new light. With unlimited perceived options, a NEW you is born. You are no longer SLAVE to your scarcity.

You are free.

This is the foundation of a Don Juan.
 

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thanks guru, I think you're right.
 
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