Im sure Im not the only guy this has happened to but have you ever been in a crowded nightclub or restaurant restroom at the urninals and had the feeling the guy next to you was taking a little peek to see how he measures up or the guy stands out a bit for others to see? Have you ever done that out of curiousities sake and not being a h0mo? id guess its mostly curiosity or insecurity more than some guy being a h0mo but you don't know.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
foreverAFC
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Bumsniff said:
no.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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lmao
Actually, I've seen dudes at the urinal drop their pants and shorts to the ground and let their ass hang out... I always assumed they were queer...
Actually, I've seen dudes at the urinal drop their pants and shorts to the ground and let their ass hang out... I always assumed they were queer...
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No, I just take care of business and leave.
I don't really think about it.
I don't really think about it.
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Generally looking around in bathrooms yeilds dic-ks, sh-it and urine. I got over that sometime between learning to pee by myself and puberty...