Im sure Im not the only guy this has happened to but have you ever been in a crowded nightclub or restaurant restroom at the urninals and had the feeling the guy next to you was taking a little peek to see how he measures up or the guy stands out a bit for others to see? Have you ever done that out of curiousities sake and not being a h0mo? id guess its mostly curiosity or insecurity more than some guy being a h0mo but you don't know.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Uncomfortable topic
- Thread starter Bumsniff
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
foreverAFC
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Bumsniff said:
no.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
GhengisKhan
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lmao
Actually, I've seen dudes at the urinal drop their pants and shorts to the ground and let their ass hang out... I always assumed they were queer...
Actually, I've seen dudes at the urinal drop their pants and shorts to the ground and let their ass hang out... I always assumed they were queer...
Mike32ct
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No, I just take care of business and leave.
I don't really think about it.
I don't really think about it.
SgtSplacker
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Generally looking around in bathrooms yeilds dic-ks, sh-it and urine. I got over that sometime between learning to pee by myself and puberty...