Soflobro#2
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You guys really put a lot of effort into this. I still don't understand what your motivation is. But what do you want?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Unbelievable
- Thread starter Soflobro#2
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Soflobro#2
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I just want to be left alone
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
I want the world chico, and everything in it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I want to be the greatest. I want to be the best. I want to live easy but be hard, strong, and tough still. And I want to be happy.
sazc
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@Soflobro2
Can you post some of these Reddit and SS exchanges where you think people are mocking you because they know it's you posting?
Maybe we can help reinforce your beliefs OR point out why that isn't the case.
I will take a moment to be candid and say, if you are using stimulants, they may have caught up with you and are making you paranoid. No Shame, just get real with yourself if that's the case.
Can you post some of these Reddit and SS exchanges where you think people are mocking you because they know it's you posting?
Maybe we can help reinforce your beliefs OR point out why that isn't the case.
I will take a moment to be candid and say, if you are using stimulants, they may have caught up with you and are making you paranoid. No Shame, just get real with yourself if that's the case.
