Soflobro#2
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You guys really put a lot of effort into this. I still don't understand what your motivation is. But what do you want?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Unbelievable
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Soflobro#2
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I just want to be left alone
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
I want the world chico, and everything in it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I want to be the greatest. I want to be the best. I want to live easy but be hard, strong, and tough still. And I want to be happy.
sazc
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@Soflobro2
Can you post some of these Reddit and SS exchanges where you think people are mocking you because they know it's you posting?
Maybe we can help reinforce your beliefs OR point out why that isn't the case.
I will take a moment to be candid and say, if you are using stimulants, they may have caught up with you and are making you paranoid. No Shame, just get real with yourself if that's the case.
Can you post some of these Reddit and SS exchanges where you think people are mocking you because they know it's you posting?
Maybe we can help reinforce your beliefs OR point out why that isn't the case.
I will take a moment to be candid and say, if you are using stimulants, they may have caught up with you and are making you paranoid. No Shame, just get real with yourself if that's the case.
