DasaniWater
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Hey guys. Heres the deal.
I was in a 6 months relationship with my girl friend. she broke up with me 3 days ago. She told me she had a crush on this guy and liked someone else.
This made me cry and become a AFC.
I became a man and began following all the dJ tips etc.
It worked damn well, she called me yesterday and wanted me back, after seeing how happy i was, flirting with girls, playing the game, etc etc etc. So she calls me to go to her house. She told me she doesnt like anyone else but me and is still crazy about me and in love with me.
We make up and I eat her ***** out blah blah blah ( no sex). afterwards she got back into her old self she was 3 days ago. She starts by talking about how we cant be together forever, and how she cant commit because shes only 16 years old and all that crap. Well i really understood her. She went off and said she still had crushes on those other guys, which got me a bit pissed off, but i didnt make it seem like it, because earlier she said she didnt like them anymore and all that crap. So i just said i didnt care if she liked someone else, its human nature to have crushes, what matters is our love. And i asked her if she was willing to give us up just for a crush? And i told her to remember how it felt when she lost me.
So she told me how she couldnt just settle down so soon, how she wanted to experience life, and have freedom still. but she didnt want to lose me. So we made some sort of deal how we would still lvoe eachother and be together but we can flirt and all that crap with other people and be free, but still have eachother, we made adeal not to have sex with anyone else. I didnt like this deal one bit. I mean, if i love someone, why the hell do i wanna be with another girl?? Secondly, it sounds to me like we're just friends with benifits. But we kept kissing and kissing and telling eachother how much we loved eachother she told me how she wanted to marry me but not settle down soo soon and all that.
Okay, so the next day. we said we wouldnt let anyone know we came back together. now we both can do what we want, we dont even hang around as much as we did anymore, we dont talk to eachother the same, it just felt like seh was just a friend... this is what scares me.
How do i handle this? I mean we love eachother a big deal, but she likes other guys and doesnt want ot be tied down. This seems like a friends with benifits sort of thing, but this is what worries me, because since we interact just as friends, talk to eachother just as friends, do we just become friends???? Ive been fooling around and joking about if she met some guy or just as if i was actually encouraging her to go out with somene .. is this wrong? Or does this make me seem confident? Do i go back to my old lovey dovey self? I dont want to, i want to continue being a DJ. But if i dont chase her, or any of that, what if we just become friends???
I would really appreciate it to who anyone who helps, thanks a lot guys.
I dnot want to force her to do anything, or to stick with me, i just want to act in a way where i get her interest level back a great deal where her only crush is on me, without becoming just a friend to her. How can i make this possible?
I dnot want to force her to do anything, or to stick with me, i just want to act in a way where i get her interest level back a great deal where her only crush is on me, without becoming just a friend to her. How can i make this possible?
I was in a 6 months relationship with my girl friend. she broke up with me 3 days ago. She told me she had a crush on this guy and liked someone else.
This made me cry and become a AFC.
I became a man and began following all the dJ tips etc.
It worked damn well, she called me yesterday and wanted me back, after seeing how happy i was, flirting with girls, playing the game, etc etc etc. So she calls me to go to her house. She told me she doesnt like anyone else but me and is still crazy about me and in love with me.
We make up and I eat her ***** out blah blah blah ( no sex). afterwards she got back into her old self she was 3 days ago. She starts by talking about how we cant be together forever, and how she cant commit because shes only 16 years old and all that crap. Well i really understood her. She went off and said she still had crushes on those other guys, which got me a bit pissed off, but i didnt make it seem like it, because earlier she said she didnt like them anymore and all that crap. So i just said i didnt care if she liked someone else, its human nature to have crushes, what matters is our love. And i asked her if she was willing to give us up just for a crush? And i told her to remember how it felt when she lost me.
So she told me how she couldnt just settle down so soon, how she wanted to experience life, and have freedom still. but she didnt want to lose me. So we made some sort of deal how we would still lvoe eachother and be together but we can flirt and all that crap with other people and be free, but still have eachother, we made adeal not to have sex with anyone else. I didnt like this deal one bit. I mean, if i love someone, why the hell do i wanna be with another girl?? Secondly, it sounds to me like we're just friends with benifits. But we kept kissing and kissing and telling eachother how much we loved eachother she told me how she wanted to marry me but not settle down soo soon and all that.
Okay, so the next day. we said we wouldnt let anyone know we came back together. now we both can do what we want, we dont even hang around as much as we did anymore, we dont talk to eachother the same, it just felt like seh was just a friend... this is what scares me.
How do i handle this? I mean we love eachother a big deal, but she likes other guys and doesnt want ot be tied down. This seems like a friends with benifits sort of thing, but this is what worries me, because since we interact just as friends, talk to eachother just as friends, do we just become friends???? Ive been fooling around and joking about if she met some guy or just as if i was actually encouraging her to go out with somene .. is this wrong? Or does this make me seem confident? Do i go back to my old lovey dovey self? I dont want to, i want to continue being a DJ. But if i dont chase her, or any of that, what if we just become friends???
I would really appreciate it to who anyone who helps, thanks a lot guys.
I dnot want to force her to do anything, or to stick with me, i just want to act in a way where i get her interest level back a great deal where her only crush is on me, without becoming just a friend to her. How can i make this possible?
I dnot want to force her to do anything, or to stick with me, i just want to act in a way where i get her interest level back a great deal where her only crush is on me, without becoming just a friend to her. How can i make this possible?