"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Unbeleivable! !

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Reading the story of Earl P Haney. He was so worried ulcers began eating the lining of his stomach. One night he had a terrible hemorrage. He was rushed to hospital. He had lost 80 pounds. He was so ill, he was told not to even lift his hand. Three doctors including a celerbrated ulcer specialist said his case was incurable. He lived on alkaline powders and a tablespoon of half milk & half cream every hour. A nurse put a tube into his stomach every night and morning and pumped out the contents.

This went on for months. Finally he decided...if he had nothing to look forward to...he might as well travel. He told the physicans he would travel the world and pump out his own stomach twice a day.

They were shocked and told him he would die, if he travelled the world.

He says the moment he boarded the ship heading to the orient he began to feel better. He gradually gave up his alkaline powder and stomach pump. He was soon eating all kinds of foreign cuisine that were guaranteed to kill him. He even smoked long cigars and drank alcohol. He enjoyed himself. He made friends on the ship..stayed up all night playing cards. He encountered typhoons that were predicted to put him in his grave. He got a massive kick from the adventure.

When he reached china and india he realised his own life in usa was paradise compared to the poverty and hunger in the orient!

When he got back to usa...he had gained weight & had almost forgotten about his stomach ulcer. He had never felt better in his life. He went back to buisness and never felt ill again a day in his life.


I find that AMAZING.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah. Everyone needs to live out of country for at least a couple of years. Period.
 
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