"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unattractive Pua claims to have method for tinder 100 matches in 3 days

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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QuadDeuces

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Just because a chick talks to you on a dating app doesn't mean they are DTF when you meet them in real life.

I have pictures on my tinder which are very neutral, I get only 2/3 matches per 100. But when they meet me I look at least a point better than on my Tinder and they get super excited. "You look so much better in real life".
It immediately turns you into a prize.
 

thatfeel

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those matches are just tinder bots...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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skinnyguy

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He's actually decent looking and white (or maybe Latino but he is not Asian or Indian). That alone puts him in the top 20% of men. Next time post a thread that actually pertains to low value men getting matches.
 

Thechamp

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He's actually decent looking and white (or maybe Latino but he is not Asian or Indian). That alone puts him in the top 20% of men. Next time post a thread that actually pertains to low value men getting matches.
He's not good looking at all he's not even in the top 60 percent what you on about
 

CMNILS87

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i have tons of OLD matches. No selfies, funny tagline, lots of action shots and show hobbies. Be attractive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meisterman

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Remember, tinder isn't as effective as it used to be. Ever since they started limiting swipes and charging 9.99/month for "premium" users, matches has gone way downhill and bots way uphill. It's really a broken system that doesn't work at all. Well, occasionally
 

thatfeel

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What are tinder bots? Why do they exist, just to sell you something?
No, it's like the typical "hai um lol me and a friend r visiting town this weekend come chat with us on freesecks.net profile name is blah blah blah".
 
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