"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Unattractive Pua claims to have method for tinder 100 matches in 3 days

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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QuadDeuces

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Just because a chick talks to you on a dating app doesn't mean they are DTF when you meet them in real life.

I have pictures on my tinder which are very neutral, I get only 2/3 matches per 100. But when they meet me I look at least a point better than on my Tinder and they get super excited. "You look so much better in real life".
It immediately turns you into a prize.
 

thatfeel

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those matches are just tinder bots...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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He's actually decent looking and white (or maybe Latino but he is not Asian or Indian). That alone puts him in the top 20% of men. Next time post a thread that actually pertains to low value men getting matches.
 

Thechamp

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He's actually decent looking and white (or maybe Latino but he is not Asian or Indian). That alone puts him in the top 20% of men. Next time post a thread that actually pertains to low value men getting matches.
He's not good looking at all he's not even in the top 60 percent what you on about
 

CMNILS87

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i have tons of OLD matches. No selfies, funny tagline, lots of action shots and show hobbies. Be attractive.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Meisterman

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Remember, tinder isn't as effective as it used to be. Ever since they started limiting swipes and charging 9.99/month for "premium" users, matches has gone way downhill and bots way uphill. It's really a broken system that doesn't work at all. Well, occasionally
 

thatfeel

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What are tinder bots? Why do they exist, just to sell you something?
No, it's like the typical "hai um lol me and a friend r visiting town this weekend come chat with us on freesecks.net profile name is blah blah blah".
 
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