"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unattractive Pua claims to have method for tinder 100 matches in 3 days

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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QuadDeuces

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Just because a chick talks to you on a dating app doesn't mean they are DTF when you meet them in real life.

I have pictures on my tinder which are very neutral, I get only 2/3 matches per 100. But when they meet me I look at least a point better than on my Tinder and they get super excited. "You look so much better in real life".
It immediately turns you into a prize.
 

thatfeel

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those matches are just tinder bots...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skinnyguy

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He's actually decent looking and white (or maybe Latino but he is not Asian or Indian). That alone puts him in the top 20% of men. Next time post a thread that actually pertains to low value men getting matches.
 

Thechamp

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He's actually decent looking and white (or maybe Latino but he is not Asian or Indian). That alone puts him in the top 20% of men. Next time post a thread that actually pertains to low value men getting matches.
He's not good looking at all he's not even in the top 60 percent what you on about
 

CMNILS87

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i have tons of OLD matches. No selfies, funny tagline, lots of action shots and show hobbies. Be attractive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Meisterman

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Remember, tinder isn't as effective as it used to be. Ever since they started limiting swipes and charging 9.99/month for "premium" users, matches has gone way downhill and bots way uphill. It's really a broken system that doesn't work at all. Well, occasionally
 

thatfeel

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What are tinder bots? Why do they exist, just to sell you something?
No, it's like the typical "hai um lol me and a friend r visiting town this weekend come chat with us on freesecks.net profile name is blah blah blah".
 
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