"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Unattractive interested girls?

idiot_boyfriend

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Well, now that I'm a DJ in training, I'm beginning to pick up more signals from the ladies. Unfortunately, more than half of these women are not really attractive (to put it nicely), and I wouldn't consider going out with them.

I guess my current policy towards these girls is to pretend to be completely devoid of all their signals. Sometimes I even try to play along....maybe for practice or something to that effect.

Any suggestions on how I should act to unattractive girls who are very interested in me?

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TinyFzzyKiwi

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god, i fvucking hate it when that happens. I just kinda become friends with them or something, hell ive been in school less than a month and ive alrdy had 2 not so hot ladies wanting me, 1s a cheerleader, kinda fat/chuby, and other 1, well i dont really c her around 2 much. And i know they want me(theyve talked to friends of mine about it), but i guess if their not that bad, u can use them to practice. I guess they might act as social proof as well? or am i wrong?

or maybe as links to hotter girls?
 

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MY LYFE IS SO HARD GIRLZ LIKE ME HOW SHOULD I ACT
 

Interpol

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If the girl is ugly but has a good personality, I'll usually be friends with her. Kind of flirt with her once in a while, but not enough to really lead her on or anything. These girls are also great for testing out your riskiest C+F lines.

If the girl is ugly and annoying, I'll just avoid her at all costs.
 

shagnscoob

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Originally posted by Interpol
If the girl is ugly but has a good personality, I'll usually be friends with her. Kind of flirt with her once in a while, but not enough to really lead her on or anything. These girls are also great for testing out your riskiest C+F lines.

If the girl is ugly and annoying, I'll just avoid her at all costs.
yeah some of the sexiest/most c+f stuff i say is to the girls that arent THAT attractive but flirt with me alot...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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