soulforge
Master Don Juan
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What the fuk has the world become?
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What does capital letters have to do with Marxism? If you are against racism then you have to be against police too because they are the legally sanctioned instruments of violence to enforce a social racist order.I notice they are using Black Lives Matter in capitol letters, which means they are supporting the Marxist political organization whose main goal is #Defundthepolice. Racism is bad, most people will agree on that, but not everyone is going to agree with defunding the police. So using that and BLM as a litmus test for racism seems pretty alarming.
I like dipping into the chocolate on occasionI’m definitely not racist when it comes to a fine black woman.
..and people like you have been doing that in Jim Crow south. That does not mean anything unless you are an ally to the black community and understand systemic racism.
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True. As a Classical Liberal that votes Conservative and supports Big Don, I'm gonna have to say that Bumble (as a private business) is allowed to have a Terms of Use that you have to agree to if you wish to use their service. Just like the NFL can tell players to stop kneeling, both sides reserve that right.Nobody forces anybody to use Bumble.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BLM is a political organization founded by Alicia Garza, who is a Marxist and LGBTQ activist.What does capital letters have to do with Marxism? If you are against racism then you have to be against police too because they are the legally sanctioned instruments of violence to enforce a social racist order.
I dont call the police. I call on Jesus and I believe angels are my spiritual bodyguards. I pray and fear God.BLM is a political organization founded by Alicia Garza, who is a Marxist and LGBTQ activist.
Now your second sentence is rather provocative. In order to be against racism you have to be against the police? Is that really the standard now? Did you know the police in Atlanta are over 50% black? Why would a racist organization hire mostly African Americans? Who do you think arrested the guy who shot Rayshard Brooks? His family was on TV wanting justice. If there is no justice system, how are they going to get justice? I'm in favor of police reform, But if you want to get rid of all police, law enforcement, and the judicial system, then what you are advocating is to radical for me, my friend.
That's Bumble you fvcking racist!![]()
Hahaha!Oh chit.. I must keep my racism in check!
You are right on the money that Bumble is a magnet for soy boys. I think that contingent was always there, but I think it has gotten more pronounced over time.Bumble was the first one to have a video chat feature for virtual dating during the Coronavirus lockdown. F'd that. I bet a lot of soy boys got some good virtual dating out of it. LOL
Nuff said...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You need to be saved. There is a follow Zekko's post that has a more serious reply.@corrector there are almost 300 murders in Chicago so far this year and most of them are black and other minorities. And by the way that is with cops. If you take away the racist cops who are protecting the racist system you are going to have even more murders of mostly black and minorities. In my opinion you have mental issues and are also pretty ignorant, I suggest you get off your ass and get some therapy and try to learn something other than the bullshiit you have been fed. Waiting around all your life for someone or something else to fix your problems is about as useful as a condom in a convent. @soulforge if you want to use the app just lie, what are they going to do put you in Bumble jail? Anyway I think you should just approach in real life , I saw pictures of you in another thread and you are a good looking guy, don't waste time on OLD.
BLM is a political organization founded by Alicia Garza, who is a Marxist and LGBTQ activist.
Now your second sentence is rather provocative. In order to be against racism you have to be against the police? Is that really the standard now? Did you know the police in Atlanta are over 50% black? Why would a racist organization hire mostly African Americans? Who do you think arrested the guy who shot Rayshard Brooks? His family was on TV wanting justice. If there is no justice system, how are they going to get justice? I'm in favor of police reform, But if you want to get rid of all police, law enforcement, and the judicial system, then what you are advocating is to radical for me, my friend.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.