soulforge
Master Don Juan
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What the fuk has the world become?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What does capital letters have to do with Marxism? If you are against racism then you have to be against police too because they are the legally sanctioned instruments of violence to enforce a social racist order.I notice they are using Black Lives Matter in capitol letters, which means they are supporting the Marxist political organization whose main goal is #Defundthepolice. Racism is bad, most people will agree on that, but not everyone is going to agree with defunding the police. So using that and BLM as a litmus test for racism seems pretty alarming.
I like dipping into the chocolate on occasionI’m definitely not racist when it comes to a fine black woman.
..and people like you have been doing that in Jim Crow south. That does not mean anything unless you are an ally to the black community and understand systemic racism.
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True. As a Classical Liberal that votes Conservative and supports Big Don, I'm gonna have to say that Bumble (as a private business) is allowed to have a Terms of Use that you have to agree to if you wish to use their service. Just like the NFL can tell players to stop kneeling, both sides reserve that right.Nobody forces anybody to use Bumble.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BLM is a political organization founded by Alicia Garza, who is a Marxist and LGBTQ activist.What does capital letters have to do with Marxism? If you are against racism then you have to be against police too because they are the legally sanctioned instruments of violence to enforce a social racist order.
I dont call the police. I call on Jesus and I believe angels are my spiritual bodyguards. I pray and fear God.BLM is a political organization founded by Alicia Garza, who is a Marxist and LGBTQ activist.
Now your second sentence is rather provocative. In order to be against racism you have to be against the police? Is that really the standard now? Did you know the police in Atlanta are over 50% black? Why would a racist organization hire mostly African Americans? Who do you think arrested the guy who shot Rayshard Brooks? His family was on TV wanting justice. If there is no justice system, how are they going to get justice? I'm in favor of police reform, But if you want to get rid of all police, law enforcement, and the judicial system, then what you are advocating is to radical for me, my friend.
That's Bumble you fvcking racist!![]()
Hahaha!Oh chit.. I must keep my racism in check!
You are right on the money that Bumble is a magnet for soy boys. I think that contingent was always there, but I think it has gotten more pronounced over time.Bumble was the first one to have a video chat feature for virtual dating during the Coronavirus lockdown. F'd that. I bet a lot of soy boys got some good virtual dating out of it. LOL
Nuff said...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You need to be saved. There is a follow Zekko's post that has a more serious reply.@corrector there are almost 300 murders in Chicago so far this year and most of them are black and other minorities. And by the way that is with cops. If you take away the racist cops who are protecting the racist system you are going to have even more murders of mostly black and minorities. In my opinion you have mental issues and are also pretty ignorant, I suggest you get off your ass and get some therapy and try to learn something other than the bullshiit you have been fed. Waiting around all your life for someone or something else to fix your problems is about as useful as a condom in a convent. @soulforge if you want to use the app just lie, what are they going to do put you in Bumble jail? Anyway I think you should just approach in real life , I saw pictures of you in another thread and you are a good looking guy, don't waste time on OLD.
BLM is a political organization founded by Alicia Garza, who is a Marxist and LGBTQ activist.
Now your second sentence is rather provocative. In order to be against racism you have to be against the police? Is that really the standard now? Did you know the police in Atlanta are over 50% black? Why would a racist organization hire mostly African Americans? Who do you think arrested the guy who shot Rayshard Brooks? His family was on TV wanting justice. If there is no justice system, how are they going to get justice? I'm in favor of police reform, But if you want to get rid of all police, law enforcement, and the judicial system, then what you are advocating is to radical for me, my friend.
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.