For the last two months I have been talking to this married woman who is now getting divorced. I know she likes me and I like her, but I also know that at this workplace of her's there are scores of guys that are after her. I don't have her number, I never gave her mine, I was respectful of the fact that she was married. I flirt with her and tell her how much she would have fun with me and I tease her about all the guys that are after her. But I have not been pursuing her aggresively like others. I was involved with a married woman in the past and would not like to do that again. But now that she is getting divorced, I feel like I would like to get to know her better. I just don't want to fight for her affection. I don't want to compete with other guys. I am 32 yrs old and I have other things to worry about. What is the best way to go about this. Should I have her come to me? Should I just stand back and let her date (rebound) with other guys? The married woman I was involved with in the past fuvked with my head (she said she was getting divorced, but never did) so I don't want to get fuvked over with this girl. But I also would love to hook up with her cause she is very attractive. What do I do since she is finalizing her divorce???? I feel like if some other guy takes her out and she has fun, I will be regreting it. Thanks for your help. How the hell do I proceed here. No experience with girls who are getting divorced....
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Ummmm.........so there's this married girl.........
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jophil28
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Married women who are " getting a divorce" are risky business.
However that does not seem to deter a lot of you guys.
At best you might score a FB - at worst you will be used as "rebound guy" until some other chump takes her fancy at which time you will be Friendzoned.
If you insist on keeping this woman in your sights, then I suggest that you just stand off for a while and let her come to you.
However that does not seem to deter a lot of you guys.
At best you might score a FB - at worst you will be used as "rebound guy" until some other chump takes her fancy at which time you will be Friendzoned.
If you insist on keeping this woman in your sights, then I suggest that you just stand off for a while and let her come to you.
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I agree with Jop!! Speaking from experience I can say that he is dead on!!! I have dealt with women saying they are unhappy and getting a divorce/ or separated already. Then they never did! But they did enjoy their cake and eating it too.jophil28 said:
Then you have to worry with her if she does get a divorce will she be ready to play the field and leave you in the dust.
Chances are you already know what you want from this one and you will have to learn on your own.
Thanks guys, her divorce is being finalized this week. I guess I will just stand back and see what happens. She has her pick in so many guys. It's crazy how some guys don't care about wedding rings. I am not as aggresive, I don't like messing w married women. I would like to find my own. I have higher standards. But now that she is divorced, I thought maybe I should make a move. I don't know. Fuvk it.
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Rejection is better than regret.
Just heed the warnings that the other posters have already given you...but that doesn't mean you should not still go for it.
You'll never know unless you try so don't let your ego get in your own way.
Just heed the warnings that the other posters have already given you...but that doesn't mean you should not still go for it.
You'll never know unless you try so don't let your ego get in your own way.
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