"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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UltrasLevski - journal of becoming a DJ

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Hello guys. A friend of mine directed me to this forum about a week ago and now I decided to post.
A little about me - I am 17 from Sofia,Bulgaria; 11th grade(we have 12, so almost finished high school). My mother is from Moscow, while my father is Bulgarian , so I am half Russian(no, I don't drink a lot, but yes I can still take in a huge amount of alcohol). I am tall- I used to be a competitive swimmer, I went swimming for 9 years, but a month ago I started Capoeira - Brazilian martial art.
Blond hair, blue eyes... that's me.
Now - to the main question. Girls like me, I had girlfriends, now I am single. I am social, almost never miss a football game, I go out with friends - bars, parties, etc. Problem is - I am not much of a ''hook up'' type, but that's what I intend to become. This summer we went on a holiday with the school, there was an awesome girl. I liked her, she liked me and just because I was a total pussay we didn't hook up and then I decided to change.
So, thanks for reading, I'll post whenever I can , please write your advises!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm the friend that directed him here. Ultras is a great guy,but from what I've noticed he's picky and has some flaws in the way he communicates with girls,mainly being needy at times and using barely any KINO. Otherwise,he has potential so I can see him becoming a ***** destroyer. Между другото,забих се с Ивет.
 
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I will.

So today I went training after school. There also goes a friend of mine, who shows me some advanced impressive jumps. Right now I'm trying to improve my butterfly jump, cause girls really love it.
At Saturday I'll go on short acrobatic course to learn something new. Then we have a workout and in the evening - of course a party.
I'm really looking forward to it , cause with every party I'm pushing my comfort zone and improve the way I talk to girls. My biggest problem so far is not using any KINO, which as I've been told is absolutely necessary.
Monday 10.12.2012
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That guide is helpful. In our society people are STARVED for touch. When you touch them, they instantly have an affinity toward you. Putting a friendly hand on a guys shoulder is a cue to him that you're alpha. I have a girlfriend now. Touching her on the first date (we were holding hands as soon as we left my dorm) was the biggest signal that we liked each other.
 
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So as i understood the main concept is Smile. Eye Contact. Kino. Killer Instinct. Done Deal.
Tomorrow there's a huge party with people of my age from all the schools in Sofia. Dancing and drinking while listening to one of my favorite bands- if nothing shows up I'll definitely go.
But i was thinking - which is more DJish - shirt or sweatshirt, but there's time to decide.

Anyways today I went training, I go for almost 2 months and I already feel that soon the gravity just won't work for me. This sport is probably the greatest thing I could start. Also it gives me confidence when talking to girls.
That's it for now , I am open for any advises and critics. :up:
 
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Smile. Eye Contact. Kino. Killer Instinct. Done Deal.
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YES!

DJ says : Shirt or sweatshirt?
If it is warm : shirt
If it is cool : sweatshirt :up:

Personally if it's cool I wear a t-shirt with a jacket, but that's me.
Do what ya want, you don't need mental masturbation over what you will wear!
 
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Last night went to a bar with some friends ready to put the new knowledge in use and when we got in I saw there were practically no girls. I mean there were some but here's the problem - I am 17 ; girls at bars are around 24. So it is quite impossible to hook up with them and even if it's not, I prefer girls my age.
 
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Atleast see if you can get to know them. I'd love to hook up with a hot, older woman. Even so, an older friend can be of great use.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What use can I get from an older female friend, 'cause my ex-girlfriend is 20 right now. Well I actually don't keep contact with her, but her twin sister is a nice friend. So how to use that exactly ?
 
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Unfortunately it's impossible to use people. If you ever plan to use a friend to get some reward, your plan will always be completely off-base. Plans like that rarely have any connection to reality.

If anything, you use her by hanging out with her and being your outgoing, interesting self. That can lead to all sorts of good things, especially in a bar.
 
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