"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello guys. A friend of mine directed me to this forum about a week ago and now I decided to post.
A little about me - I am 17 from Sofia,Bulgaria; 11th grade(we have 12, so almost finished high school). My mother is from Moscow, while my father is Bulgarian , so I am half Russian(no, I don't drink a lot, but yes I can still take in a huge amount of alcohol). I am tall- I used to be a competitive swimmer, I went swimming for 9 years, but a month ago I started Capoeira - Brazilian martial art.
Blond hair, blue eyes... that's me.
Now - to the main question. Girls like me, I had girlfriends, now I am single. I am social, almost never miss a football game, I go out with friends - bars, parties, etc. Problem is - I am not much of a ''hook up'' type, but that's what I intend to become. This summer we went on a holiday with the school, there was an awesome girl. I liked her, she liked me and just because I was a total pussay we didn't hook up and then I decided to change.
So, thanks for reading, I'll post whenever I can , please write your advises!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm the friend that directed him here. Ultras is a great guy,but from what I've noticed he's picky and has some flaws in the way he communicates with girls,mainly being needy at times and using barely any KINO. Otherwise,he has potential so I can see him becoming a ***** destroyer. Между другото,забих се с Ивет.
 
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I will.

So today I went training after school. There also goes a friend of mine, who shows me some advanced impressive jumps. Right now I'm trying to improve my butterfly jump, cause girls really love it.
At Saturday I'll go on short acrobatic course to learn something new. Then we have a workout and in the evening - of course a party.
I'm really looking forward to it , cause with every party I'm pushing my comfort zone and improve the way I talk to girls. My biggest problem so far is not using any KINO, which as I've been told is absolutely necessary.
Monday 10.12.2012
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That guide is helpful. In our society people are STARVED for touch. When you touch them, they instantly have an affinity toward you. Putting a friendly hand on a guys shoulder is a cue to him that you're alpha. I have a girlfriend now. Touching her on the first date (we were holding hands as soon as we left my dorm) was the biggest signal that we liked each other.
 
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So as i understood the main concept is Smile. Eye Contact. Kino. Killer Instinct. Done Deal.
Tomorrow there's a huge party with people of my age from all the schools in Sofia. Dancing and drinking while listening to one of my favorite bands- if nothing shows up I'll definitely go.
But i was thinking - which is more DJish - shirt or sweatshirt, but there's time to decide.

Anyways today I went training, I go for almost 2 months and I already feel that soon the gravity just won't work for me. This sport is probably the greatest thing I could start. Also it gives me confidence when talking to girls.
That's it for now , I am open for any advises and critics. :up:
 
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Smile. Eye Contact. Kino. Killer Instinct. Done Deal.
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YES!

DJ says : Shirt or sweatshirt?
If it is warm : shirt
If it is cool : sweatshirt :up:

Personally if it's cool I wear a t-shirt with a jacket, but that's me.
Do what ya want, you don't need mental masturbation over what you will wear!
 
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Last night went to a bar with some friends ready to put the new knowledge in use and when we got in I saw there were practically no girls. I mean there were some but here's the problem - I am 17 ; girls at bars are around 24. So it is quite impossible to hook up with them and even if it's not, I prefer girls my age.
 
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Atleast see if you can get to know them. I'd love to hook up with a hot, older woman. Even so, an older friend can be of great use.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What use can I get from an older female friend, 'cause my ex-girlfriend is 20 right now. Well I actually don't keep contact with her, but her twin sister is a nice friend. So how to use that exactly ?
 
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Unfortunately it's impossible to use people. If you ever plan to use a friend to get some reward, your plan will always be completely off-base. Plans like that rarely have any connection to reality.

If anything, you use her by hanging out with her and being your outgoing, interesting self. That can lead to all sorts of good things, especially in a bar.
 
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