Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Also would expect these women to use OP for what they need then expose the lack of game/frame and divorce to get with someone that makes their vaj-jay-jay tingle.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
These are scams. Here's how you tell. You DO NOT pay to play. You do not send any money no matter what. Do not be on a site that charges more than normal monthly OLD fees like Bumble or Plenty of Fish.
Ukrainians have perfected the art of scamming westerners down to a science. They do it at a high level, having convinced Americans and Europeans to give them hundreds of billions of dollars, most of which have been stolen by corrupt government officials, and they also do on an individual level through dating/marriage scams. The OP is either desperate or extremely naive.
My buddy and I once picked up 2 Russian girls at a bar And took them out on our motorcycles. Both were married to rich older white guys that brought them to the US. He ended up getting laid that nite, I didnt. They were very open with their situation and had little shame. It was disgusting to listen to.
This post reminds me of the one from last November, where a guy wanted to bring a girl from Costa Rica, pay for everything—including the hotel, round-trip airfare, and all their activities over the weekend in New York—just for some sex.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
No matter how much money you have, being taken advantage of can't feel particularly good.
nice post
Poland seems to allow any Belarussian to move there and become a resident (I guess the idea is that a big chunk of Belarus was part of Poland in the interwar period), but they have to find a job to stay.
He hasn't laid eyes on it yet.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I’ve been thinking the kidney thing is a possibility
Find a señorita. I'm sure there are other towns or metro areas nearby.
The point is you want her to invest. If she is paying $40 to catch the train & you are paying 3K to fly to Poland, who is investing? She needs to pay the $40.
Totally get that point. I just spent an hour with a couple that run a membership service for Ukrainian dating. Set it up because obviously they will know more about all this than me. And they could have just told me she’s a scammer and I should just sign up for their site. Showed them all the things I saw as suspicious and they didn’t think I should be too worried about any of it. They are having me send her ID, email, phone number and address that I already have so they can look into her.
So now you are showing you have a habit of making poor dating decisions...
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Ya man, if you haven’t dealt with real narcissistic personality disorder/borderline don’t think you’ll understand and I’m not gunna even try to explain. She picked me as her target. After dealing with her it changed a lot for me.