"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Uh oh. I'm in a rut. Boring?? Need help.

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So I figured out what's been getting me down. I'm not depressed, I'm bored which is making me depressed. I've been focusing alot on school and work. I haven't been partying at all... or general fun.

Soo... how to have fun. What is fun?

So far I'm making a list of stupid & fun things to do:
- Flaming doggie bag + doorbell with some friends. Haven't done it. Got to.
- Paying for a ridiculously large purchase in pennies and nickles. So far I have ~$40.
- Get slapped by at least one chick (preferably two in the same sitting) for being a pig.


Help me build this list!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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-make a list of stupid and fun things to do
-make a list of stupid and fun things not to do
 

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Alle_Gory said:
So I figured out what's been getting me down. I'm not depressed, I'm bored which is making me depressed. I've been focusing alot on school and work. I haven't been partying at all... or general fun.

Soo... how to have fun. What is fun?

So far I'm making a list of stupid & fun things to do:
- Flaming doggie bag + doorbell with some friends. Haven't done it. Got to.
- Paying for a ridiculously large purchase in pennies and nickles. So far I have ~$40.
- Get slapped by at least one chick (preferably two in the same sitting) for being a pig.


Help me build this list!
Please tell me you are kidding, because if you are not, you are acting like a 5 year old. How about volunteering? Learning a new language? Joining a club? Taking in some sports? Reading books? Going to museums? Exercising? Making new friends?

What girl is going to be charmed by you paying for some item in pennies? How does that excite her? How does that teach her something new? How does that make her knees weak?
 

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What girl is going to be charmed by you paying for some item in pennies? How does that excite her? How does that teach her something new? How does that make her knees weak?
I agree with you its silly, but i dont think he was after a girl he just wants fun
 

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go skydiving
go hiking
go people watching
read a book
study a new language
meet new people

Ff you feel you're boring try to do things that will create good stories to tell to people, or you could just make them up I guess.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alle_Gory

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DonJuan11 said:
Please tell me you are kidding, because if you are not, you are acting like a 5 year old. How about volunteering? Learning a new language? Joining a club? Taking in some sports? Reading books? Going to museums? Exercising? Making new friends?
I assure you I do not act like a child. In fact I am far too 'mature'.

Volunteering sounds great. Haven't done that in awhile.

What girl is going to be charmed by you paying for some item in pennies? How does that excite her? How does that teach her something new? How does that make her knees weak?
LOL. That's not what I meant.
I could care less if I charm the cashier. I just want to be a d!ck because its funny.


Thanks for your input. Anything else? I like where you were going with the volunteer idea.




Idkmyname said:
Ff you feel you're boring try to do things that will create good stories to tell to people, or you could just make them up I guess.
Can't do that. I try not to lie. I have no problem omitting information and being vague... :)

go skydiving - nope. not yet. expensive too.
go hiking - good idea.
go people watching - can't see how that's interesting but i'll give it a shot
read a book - i've done enough reading.
study a new language - great idea. maybe i can find a latino girl to teach me spanish.
meet new people - yup. working on that.
Thanks dude. Great list.
 

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OP - i asked a question similar to yours several months ago, was looking for things to do to kill the time and entertain me. one of the best things i did was learn to juggle. give it a go
 
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