"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Uh oh. I'm in a rut. Boring?? Need help.

Alle_Gory

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So I figured out what's been getting me down. I'm not depressed, I'm bored which is making me depressed. I've been focusing alot on school and work. I haven't been partying at all... or general fun.

Soo... how to have fun. What is fun?

So far I'm making a list of stupid & fun things to do:
- Flaming doggie bag + doorbell with some friends. Haven't done it. Got to.
- Paying for a ridiculously large purchase in pennies and nickles. So far I have ~$40.
- Get slapped by at least one chick (preferably two in the same sitting) for being a pig.


Help me build this list!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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-make a list of stupid and fun things to do
-make a list of stupid and fun things not to do
 

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Alle_Gory said:
So I figured out what's been getting me down. I'm not depressed, I'm bored which is making me depressed. I've been focusing alot on school and work. I haven't been partying at all... or general fun.

Soo... how to have fun. What is fun?

So far I'm making a list of stupid & fun things to do:
- Flaming doggie bag + doorbell with some friends. Haven't done it. Got to.
- Paying for a ridiculously large purchase in pennies and nickles. So far I have ~$40.
- Get slapped by at least one chick (preferably two in the same sitting) for being a pig.


Help me build this list!
Please tell me you are kidding, because if you are not, you are acting like a 5 year old. How about volunteering? Learning a new language? Joining a club? Taking in some sports? Reading books? Going to museums? Exercising? Making new friends?

What girl is going to be charmed by you paying for some item in pennies? How does that excite her? How does that teach her something new? How does that make her knees weak?
 

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What girl is going to be charmed by you paying for some item in pennies? How does that excite her? How does that teach her something new? How does that make her knees weak?
I agree with you its silly, but i dont think he was after a girl he just wants fun
 

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go skydiving
go hiking
go people watching
read a book
study a new language
meet new people

Ff you feel you're boring try to do things that will create good stories to tell to people, or you could just make them up I guess.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alle_Gory

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DonJuan11 said:
Please tell me you are kidding, because if you are not, you are acting like a 5 year old. How about volunteering? Learning a new language? Joining a club? Taking in some sports? Reading books? Going to museums? Exercising? Making new friends?
I assure you I do not act like a child. In fact I am far too 'mature'.

Volunteering sounds great. Haven't done that in awhile.

What girl is going to be charmed by you paying for some item in pennies? How does that excite her? How does that teach her something new? How does that make her knees weak?
LOL. That's not what I meant.
I could care less if I charm the cashier. I just want to be a d!ck because its funny.


Thanks for your input. Anything else? I like where you were going with the volunteer idea.




Idkmyname said:
Ff you feel you're boring try to do things that will create good stories to tell to people, or you could just make them up I guess.
Can't do that. I try not to lie. I have no problem omitting information and being vague... :)

go skydiving - nope. not yet. expensive too.
go hiking - good idea.
go people watching - can't see how that's interesting but i'll give it a shot
read a book - i've done enough reading.
study a new language - great idea. maybe i can find a latino girl to teach me spanish.
meet new people - yup. working on that.
Thanks dude. Great list.
 

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OP - i asked a question similar to yours several months ago, was looking for things to do to kill the time and entertain me. one of the best things i did was learn to juggle. give it a go
 
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