Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Christ, everywhere you go you say some slightly subtle racist comment. You have problems, bro.worship said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why, because I find black girls ugly? I'm pretty sure most white people find black women disgusting (looks-wise) anyway.kraytkiller said:
I didn't even think of that and wasn't my intention. However that's actually quite funny LOL.Cr1msonKing said:
Pretty sure they did, not my fault my post was misinterpreted and people jumped to the wrong conclusions. The whole 'mugshot' thing didn't even cross my mind, I just saw 'ugliest hookers' thread name and a link with a lot of ugly black women.Cr1msonKing said:
This:Cr1msonKing said:
Those are mugshots, nobody is going to look perfect on a mugshot, the first picture on the line up is ok, the rest... some of them look like trannies.speakeasy said:I absolutely cannot believe there is one single man on this planet that would pay money to f*ck one of these women. It is beyond belief. You could lock me up in prison for 50 years and I don't think I'd want to touch one of these if you put her in my cell.
http://freshpics.blogspot.com/2008/12/ugliest-prostitute-mug-shots.html
speakeasy said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
There isn't really, but there are an abundance of butthurt hypersensitive moralfags who cry at any mention of race and claim it's racism to spark a debate.snackwitch said:
"whose" way of thinking are you talking about?worship said:
Probably yours; the mainstream/moralistic/brainwashed way of thinking which seemingly 99% of the population has adopted... which is 'any mention of races being different from one another is racism', 'racism is bad', 'racists are terrible people', 'ZOMG RACISM!!!11!', etc.snackwitch said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
