Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Christ, everywhere you go you say some slightly subtle racist comment. You have problems, bro.worship said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why, because I find black girls ugly? I'm pretty sure most white people find black women disgusting (looks-wise) anyway.kraytkiller said:
I didn't even think of that and wasn't my intention. However that's actually quite funny LOL.Cr1msonKing said:
Pretty sure they did, not my fault my post was misinterpreted and people jumped to the wrong conclusions. The whole 'mugshot' thing didn't even cross my mind, I just saw 'ugliest hookers' thread name and a link with a lot of ugly black women.Cr1msonKing said:
This:Cr1msonKing said:
Those are mugshots, nobody is going to look perfect on a mugshot, the first picture on the line up is ok, the rest... some of them look like trannies.speakeasy said:I absolutely cannot believe there is one single man on this planet that would pay money to f*ck one of these women. It is beyond belief. You could lock me up in prison for 50 years and I don't think I'd want to touch one of these if you put her in my cell.
http://freshpics.blogspot.com/2008/12/ugliest-prostitute-mug-shots.html
speakeasy said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
There isn't really, but there are an abundance of butthurt hypersensitive moralfags who cry at any mention of race and claim it's racism to spark a debate.snackwitch said:
"whose" way of thinking are you talking about?worship said:
Probably yours; the mainstream/moralistic/brainwashed way of thinking which seemingly 99% of the population has adopted... which is 'any mention of races being different from one another is racism', 'racism is bad', 'racists are terrible people', 'ZOMG RACISM!!!11!', etc.snackwitch said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
