"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ugliest Guy In The World Picking Up Girls

latino158

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpvuIYZah20


poor guy, he has crouzons disease

scares the living **** outta girls on the street by jumping in front of them like a ****ing kangaroo

gets rejected every time, is cringe to watch

pua community would constantly tell this guy that he needs to work on his game, confidence, routines, when the brutal reality is that he has a very ugly face

he will constantly be told that his looks are not the issue, and he will want to believe that, because it will help him to cope with physical ugliness

his confidence is not unique, women can get men with his level confidence, and also with good looks, so why would they settle for a guy with crouzons disease?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude's got more confidence than me, i give him that.
 

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How about you stop worrying about what he is doing and start taking action on your own.

Be blessed that you don't look like him or have to deal with his condition.

Posting things like this is a waste of time. :kick:
 

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Good for him. How many of you little pr*cks could usurp a lifetime of such a debilitating mindset spawn by a genetic anomaly through no fault of your own, and still do what this guy just did? The guy is admirable.
 

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It's good that this guy is working through his issues.
That opening where he jumps in front of the girl walking down the street and blocks her every time she tries to get away from him though, I agree with Mauser, that is terrible and must come off as frightening and intimidating.

Kudos to the guy for trying, especially since he's had some debilitation, but he comes across as very nervous and antsy, I think. He seems like the kind of guy who would get tossed out of a club by bouncers for bothering the girls, or find himself in some sort of misunderstanding and get beaten up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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like I said, his level of confidence is not unique

women can get a guys with his level of confidence, and much better looks

they're everywhere

is cringy to watch how these girls can't wait to get out of the situation, especially that latina girl in black
 

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I saw it but paid no attention to the YouTube comments. I know how it goes. 100 anonymous other douches posting comments that make you wonder where is the site's quality control.

Good looks is some kind of default requirement when many females are concerned. When complimenting looks in those situations, it sometimes sounds like they are intoxicated or talking out their ass. Who uses 'pretty' to describe a guy? (personal experience here)

Lust is too much to bear when you aren't one of the 'beautiful people'. You feel like the young male equivalent of an isolated and ridiculed elderly man.

You resort to going out alone pretending you are having a good time.

We are in an age where women are talking and thinking like guys.
Living with something outside your control that guys and girls constantly remind you of sucks. To be talked down to and have your insecurities played into by women and (possibly) white knights sucks.

As a person who in the past, was clearly immediately pigeon-holed and isolated in his college years for being 'him', being associated with those on the autistic spectrum and the handicapped is why I am no longer outcome dependent on women.
 

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latino158 said:
like I said, his level of confidence is not unique

women can get a guys with his level of confidence, and much better looks

they're everywhere

is cringy to watch how these girls can't wait to get out of the situation, especially that latina girl in black
but he have balls, more then most here, also why worrying about him?

his aproach is annoying to anyone being good looking or not, course pretty people normally can get away, but is still annoying and sometimes even your looks can't get you away of trouble.

then I ask waht is the point of this post anyway? game he have none so saying looks is better then game is void here.
 

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He didnt **** any girls from this video. They were visibly disgusted at looking at him. How is this game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm finding the "manosphere" to be a bit questionable these days. There are a lot of PUAs co-opting men's issues using evo psych, red pill, game, etc. who are trying to make money.

He's just one of their many victims.

There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there to overcome fears but it's obvious this is counterproductive for him and I see him getting himself in trouble if he keeps this up.
 

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G_Govan said:
I'm finding the "manosphere" to be a bit questionable these days. There are a lot of PUAs co-opting men's issues using evo psych, red pill, game, etc. who are trying to make money.

He's just one of their many victims.

There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there to overcome fears but it's obvious this is counterproductive for him and I see him getting himself in trouble if he keeps this up.
Wouldn't surprise me a bit.
Honestly, I think you have to be a little gullible to believe everything a PUA guru tells you. Maybe a lot gullible.
 

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I've come to the conclusion that if you look like crap and are socially inept, then you won't really get anywhere. Props to this guy for approaching but thumbs down for being socially stupid by not knowing when to back off.
 

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He's got good vocal tonality and pretty good body language. He certainly did scare the heck out of those girls though.

Too bad the guy can't get a new set of teeth and a little plastic surgery. I'm concerned that he might go on acting like this for a while but then fall into despair as the rejections mount up and reach critical mass. I give him a lot of credit for trying.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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