"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ugliest Guy In The World Picking Up Girls

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpvuIYZah20


poor guy, he has crouzons disease

scares the living **** outta girls on the street by jumping in front of them like a ****ing kangaroo

gets rejected every time, is cringe to watch

pua community would constantly tell this guy that he needs to work on his game, confidence, routines, when the brutal reality is that he has a very ugly face

he will constantly be told that his looks are not the issue, and he will want to believe that, because it will help him to cope with physical ugliness

his confidence is not unique, women can get men with his level confidence, and also with good looks, so why would they settle for a guy with crouzons disease?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude's got more confidence than me, i give him that.
 

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How about you stop worrying about what he is doing and start taking action on your own.

Be blessed that you don't look like him or have to deal with his condition.

Posting things like this is a waste of time. :kick:
 

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Good for him. How many of you little pr*cks could usurp a lifetime of such a debilitating mindset spawn by a genetic anomaly through no fault of your own, and still do what this guy just did? The guy is admirable.
 

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It's good that this guy is working through his issues.
That opening where he jumps in front of the girl walking down the street and blocks her every time she tries to get away from him though, I agree with Mauser, that is terrible and must come off as frightening and intimidating.

Kudos to the guy for trying, especially since he's had some debilitation, but he comes across as very nervous and antsy, I think. He seems like the kind of guy who would get tossed out of a club by bouncers for bothering the girls, or find himself in some sort of misunderstanding and get beaten up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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like I said, his level of confidence is not unique

women can get a guys with his level of confidence, and much better looks

they're everywhere

is cringy to watch how these girls can't wait to get out of the situation, especially that latina girl in black
 

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I saw it but paid no attention to the YouTube comments. I know how it goes. 100 anonymous other douches posting comments that make you wonder where is the site's quality control.

Good looks is some kind of default requirement when many females are concerned. When complimenting looks in those situations, it sometimes sounds like they are intoxicated or talking out their ass. Who uses 'pretty' to describe a guy? (personal experience here)

Lust is too much to bear when you aren't one of the 'beautiful people'. You feel like the young male equivalent of an isolated and ridiculed elderly man.

You resort to going out alone pretending you are having a good time.

We are in an age where women are talking and thinking like guys.
Living with something outside your control that guys and girls constantly remind you of sucks. To be talked down to and have your insecurities played into by women and (possibly) white knights sucks.

As a person who in the past, was clearly immediately pigeon-holed and isolated in his college years for being 'him', being associated with those on the autistic spectrum and the handicapped is why I am no longer outcome dependent on women.
 

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latino158 said:
like I said, his level of confidence is not unique

women can get a guys with his level of confidence, and much better looks

they're everywhere

is cringy to watch how these girls can't wait to get out of the situation, especially that latina girl in black
but he have balls, more then most here, also why worrying about him?

his aproach is annoying to anyone being good looking or not, course pretty people normally can get away, but is still annoying and sometimes even your looks can't get you away of trouble.

then I ask waht is the point of this post anyway? game he have none so saying looks is better then game is void here.
 

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He didnt **** any girls from this video. They were visibly disgusted at looking at him. How is this game?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm finding the "manosphere" to be a bit questionable these days. There are a lot of PUAs co-opting men's issues using evo psych, red pill, game, etc. who are trying to make money.

He's just one of their many victims.

There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there to overcome fears but it's obvious this is counterproductive for him and I see him getting himself in trouble if he keeps this up.
 

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G_Govan said:
I'm finding the "manosphere" to be a bit questionable these days. There are a lot of PUAs co-opting men's issues using evo psych, red pill, game, etc. who are trying to make money.

He's just one of their many victims.

There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there to overcome fears but it's obvious this is counterproductive for him and I see him getting himself in trouble if he keeps this up.
Wouldn't surprise me a bit.
Honestly, I think you have to be a little gullible to believe everything a PUA guru tells you. Maybe a lot gullible.
 

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I've come to the conclusion that if you look like crap and are socially inept, then you won't really get anywhere. Props to this guy for approaching but thumbs down for being socially stupid by not knowing when to back off.
 

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He's got good vocal tonality and pretty good body language. He certainly did scare the heck out of those girls though.

Too bad the guy can't get a new set of teeth and a little plastic surgery. I'm concerned that he might go on acting like this for a while but then fall into despair as the rejections mount up and reach critical mass. I give him a lot of credit for trying.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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