Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ugliest Guy In The World Picking Up Girls

latino158

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpvuIYZah20


poor guy, he has crouzons disease

scares the living **** outta girls on the street by jumping in front of them like a ****ing kangaroo

gets rejected every time, is cringe to watch

pua community would constantly tell this guy that he needs to work on his game, confidence, routines, when the brutal reality is that he has a very ugly face

he will constantly be told that his looks are not the issue, and he will want to believe that, because it will help him to cope with physical ugliness

his confidence is not unique, women can get men with his level confidence, and also with good looks, so why would they settle for a guy with crouzons disease?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude's got more confidence than me, i give him that.
 

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How about you stop worrying about what he is doing and start taking action on your own.

Be blessed that you don't look like him or have to deal with his condition.

Posting things like this is a waste of time. :kick:
 

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Good for him. How many of you little pr*cks could usurp a lifetime of such a debilitating mindset spawn by a genetic anomaly through no fault of your own, and still do what this guy just did? The guy is admirable.
 

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It's good that this guy is working through his issues.
That opening where he jumps in front of the girl walking down the street and blocks her every time she tries to get away from him though, I agree with Mauser, that is terrible and must come off as frightening and intimidating.

Kudos to the guy for trying, especially since he's had some debilitation, but he comes across as very nervous and antsy, I think. He seems like the kind of guy who would get tossed out of a club by bouncers for bothering the girls, or find himself in some sort of misunderstanding and get beaten up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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like I said, his level of confidence is not unique

women can get a guys with his level of confidence, and much better looks

they're everywhere

is cringy to watch how these girls can't wait to get out of the situation, especially that latina girl in black
 

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I saw it but paid no attention to the YouTube comments. I know how it goes. 100 anonymous other douches posting comments that make you wonder where is the site's quality control.

Good looks is some kind of default requirement when many females are concerned. When complimenting looks in those situations, it sometimes sounds like they are intoxicated or talking out their ass. Who uses 'pretty' to describe a guy? (personal experience here)

Lust is too much to bear when you aren't one of the 'beautiful people'. You feel like the young male equivalent of an isolated and ridiculed elderly man.

You resort to going out alone pretending you are having a good time.

We are in an age where women are talking and thinking like guys.
Living with something outside your control that guys and girls constantly remind you of sucks. To be talked down to and have your insecurities played into by women and (possibly) white knights sucks.

As a person who in the past, was clearly immediately pigeon-holed and isolated in his college years for being 'him', being associated with those on the autistic spectrum and the handicapped is why I am no longer outcome dependent on women.
 

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latino158 said:
like I said, his level of confidence is not unique

women can get a guys with his level of confidence, and much better looks

they're everywhere

is cringy to watch how these girls can't wait to get out of the situation, especially that latina girl in black
but he have balls, more then most here, also why worrying about him?

his aproach is annoying to anyone being good looking or not, course pretty people normally can get away, but is still annoying and sometimes even your looks can't get you away of trouble.

then I ask waht is the point of this post anyway? game he have none so saying looks is better then game is void here.
 

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He didnt **** any girls from this video. They were visibly disgusted at looking at him. How is this game?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm finding the "manosphere" to be a bit questionable these days. There are a lot of PUAs co-opting men's issues using evo psych, red pill, game, etc. who are trying to make money.

He's just one of their many victims.

There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there to overcome fears but it's obvious this is counterproductive for him and I see him getting himself in trouble if he keeps this up.
 

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G_Govan said:
I'm finding the "manosphere" to be a bit questionable these days. There are a lot of PUAs co-opting men's issues using evo psych, red pill, game, etc. who are trying to make money.

He's just one of their many victims.

There's nothing wrong with putting yourself out there to overcome fears but it's obvious this is counterproductive for him and I see him getting himself in trouble if he keeps this up.
Wouldn't surprise me a bit.
Honestly, I think you have to be a little gullible to believe everything a PUA guru tells you. Maybe a lot gullible.
 

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I've come to the conclusion that if you look like crap and are socially inept, then you won't really get anywhere. Props to this guy for approaching but thumbs down for being socially stupid by not knowing when to back off.
 

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He's got good vocal tonality and pretty good body language. He certainly did scare the heck out of those girls though.

Too bad the guy can't get a new set of teeth and a little plastic surgery. I'm concerned that he might go on acting like this for a while but then fall into despair as the rejections mount up and reach critical mass. I give him a lot of credit for trying.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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