"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ugh.. This Girl

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tomcat2007

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Hey guys me again. This girl who lives in my neighbourhood had originally turned me down for a date Saturday night.(Something casual-a bite to eat.) Of course I was dissapointed but didnt tell her. She had gotten back to me later this evening and asked me if I wanted to go for coffee on Saturday night. However she is making no guarntees about it. In relation to this, I said no worries, no big deal if nothing materializes. This girl orginally was flaking and now is deflaking. Is she actually interested or is she covering her tracks. FACK SAKES! Cheers from the Thomcat!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She could be bored.

Make her jump through some hoops to test her interest. Say no to coffee on her terms but reschedule on yours. Do this before spending a dime. If there is genuine interest she will oblige. If not, you're just spinning your wheels.

Spin more plates.
 
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WHAT EVER YOU DO, DO NOT PAY FOR HER. Above poster makes a good point, you should do it on your terms not hers. She is feeling like she has a boy toy now.
 
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wjh said:
She could be bored.
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People only go for a coffee on a Saturday night if they're really really bored with nothing better to do.

Counter her offer (since she asked you, it means that she's supposedly free on that night) with something else on your term at the same time, but more exciting than coffee.
 
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