"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ugh.. This Girl

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Hey guys me again. This girl who lives in my neighbourhood had originally turned me down for a date Saturday night.(Something casual-a bite to eat.) Of course I was dissapointed but didnt tell her. She had gotten back to me later this evening and asked me if I wanted to go for coffee on Saturday night. However she is making no guarntees about it. In relation to this, I said no worries, no big deal if nothing materializes. This girl orginally was flaking and now is deflaking. Is she actually interested or is she covering her tracks. FACK SAKES! Cheers from the Thomcat!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She could be bored.

Make her jump through some hoops to test her interest. Say no to coffee on her terms but reschedule on yours. Do this before spending a dime. If there is genuine interest she will oblige. If not, you're just spinning your wheels.

Spin more plates.
 
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WHAT EVER YOU DO, DO NOT PAY FOR HER. Above poster makes a good point, you should do it on your terms not hers. She is feeling like she has a boy toy now.
 
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wjh said:
She could be bored.
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People only go for a coffee on a Saturday night if they're really really bored with nothing better to do.

Counter her offer (since she asked you, it means that she's supposedly free on that night) with something else on your term at the same time, but more exciting than coffee.
 
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