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Don Juan
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She's really social and has lots of friends. I have no friends, but I thought I'd go through her to get some friends. Bad?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What this guy says. Make sure you shut her down, but not so much that she will then revert to ****blocking you.worship said:Good if she has hot friends and you make sure to LJBF her.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
or if you have any desperate chode friends, then introduce them to her and set them up. Hopefully she'll return the favor with one of her hot friends.Desert Fox said:2. Get fat girl to think one of your attractive buddies is into her.
Yep Cinamon is right on here bring a mate with you that has no standards, everyone has a mate like this they will ****, lick or get sucked by anything. After he does his thing she shouldn't ever have any initiative to like you.Cinamon said:Good for you, fat birds have a lot of hot friends, cause it makes average to above average girls look like a goddess. Now, the best way to play this is to set her up with an aquantaince that would be happy to spend time with any girl, and that gets her out of ur hair, or wanting you. She will return the favour by not c0ck blocking you.
DonGorgon also has a point as hanging with fatties does lower self esteem and even if you feel you can do better, they kind of become part of your reality which will definetly make you feel awkward near hot girls.DonGorgon said:lots of en are turning gay and or accepting fatties as their only options.. i say dont do it.. cause fat hos lower your self esteem
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Omg this is so true.......ItsAllAboutMe said:DonGorgon also has a point as hanging with fatties does lower self esteem and even if you feel you can do better, they kind of become part of your reality which will definetly make you feel awkward near hot girls.
You have to start somewhere. So fat/hot doesn't matter, as long as your not fvcking the fatties, cuz den she will tell her hot friends you ****ed her. As much as her hot friend's might of been interested or thought you were hot, your value will be lower then ever and if u live somewhere people generally know each other then your reputation will go down the ****ttter. So general rule don't **** the fatties and don't be seen with her when it is just you too.