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Don Juan
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She's really social and has lots of friends. I have no friends, but I thought I'd go through her to get some friends. Bad?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What this guy says. Make sure you shut her down, but not so much that she will then revert to ****blocking you.worship said:Good if she has hot friends and you make sure to LJBF her.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
or if you have any desperate chode friends, then introduce them to her and set them up. Hopefully she'll return the favor with one of her hot friends.Desert Fox said:2. Get fat girl to think one of your attractive buddies is into her.
Yep Cinamon is right on here bring a mate with you that has no standards, everyone has a mate like this they will ****, lick or get sucked by anything. After he does his thing she shouldn't ever have any initiative to like you.Cinamon said:Good for you, fat birds have a lot of hot friends, cause it makes average to above average girls look like a goddess. Now, the best way to play this is to set her up with an aquantaince that would be happy to spend time with any girl, and that gets her out of ur hair, or wanting you. She will return the favour by not c0ck blocking you.
DonGorgon also has a point as hanging with fatties does lower self esteem and even if you feel you can do better, they kind of become part of your reality which will definetly make you feel awkward near hot girls.DonGorgon said:lots of en are turning gay and or accepting fatties as their only options.. i say dont do it.. cause fat hos lower your self esteem
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Omg this is so true.......ItsAllAboutMe said:DonGorgon also has a point as hanging with fatties does lower self esteem and even if you feel you can do better, they kind of become part of your reality which will definetly make you feel awkward near hot girls.
You have to start somewhere. So fat/hot doesn't matter, as long as your not fvcking the fatties, cuz den she will tell her hot friends you ****ed her. As much as her hot friend's might of been interested or thought you were hot, your value will be lower then ever and if u live somewhere people generally know each other then your reputation will go down the ****ttter. So general rule don't **** the fatties and don't be seen with her when it is just you too.