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Don Juan
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She's really social and has lots of friends. I have no friends, but I thought I'd go through her to get some friends. Bad?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What this guy says. Make sure you shut her down, but not so much that she will then revert to ****blocking you.worship said:Good if she has hot friends and you make sure to LJBF her.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
or if you have any desperate chode friends, then introduce them to her and set them up. Hopefully she'll return the favor with one of her hot friends.Desert Fox said:2. Get fat girl to think one of your attractive buddies is into her.
Yep Cinamon is right on here bring a mate with you that has no standards, everyone has a mate like this they will ****, lick or get sucked by anything. After he does his thing she shouldn't ever have any initiative to like you.Cinamon said:Good for you, fat birds have a lot of hot friends, cause it makes average to above average girls look like a goddess. Now, the best way to play this is to set her up with an aquantaince that would be happy to spend time with any girl, and that gets her out of ur hair, or wanting you. She will return the favour by not c0ck blocking you.
DonGorgon also has a point as hanging with fatties does lower self esteem and even if you feel you can do better, they kind of become part of your reality which will definetly make you feel awkward near hot girls.DonGorgon said:lots of en are turning gay and or accepting fatties as their only options.. i say dont do it.. cause fat hos lower your self esteem
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Omg this is so true.......ItsAllAboutMe said:DonGorgon also has a point as hanging with fatties does lower self esteem and even if you feel you can do better, they kind of become part of your reality which will definetly make you feel awkward near hot girls.
You have to start somewhere. So fat/hot doesn't matter, as long as your not fvcking the fatties, cuz den she will tell her hot friends you ****ed her. As much as her hot friend's might of been interested or thought you were hot, your value will be lower then ever and if u live somewhere people generally know each other then your reputation will go down the ****ttter. So general rule don't **** the fatties and don't be seen with her when it is just you too.