“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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ugh...finding out a woman is married

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So last night I'm at a birthday party of a female friend. She brought two of her friends from work, both of which were coming on to me. The one coming on to me the most blatently I was not attracted to at all. The other was this cute blonde girl who was making me drinks and giving me the look and IOIs. So I made her my target. After some conversation, there was a lot of kino really quick, I had my arms around her while talking, she was using every opportunity to touch against me and amp up the flirting, grabbing my hand and leading me to walk with her and all that stuff. So then my friend who brought her whispers in my ear, "just so you know, she is married and has a 2 year old kid." I'm like WTF?!??!?! I was so damn pissed off. I still continued dancing with her and talking, but knew I couldn't take things any further even if I wanted because everyone there knows she's married and I'd look like the big assh*le trying to make out with a girl I know is married.

I got pretty f*cking pissed of thinking that it's just my luck that the single girl coming on to me was not attractive, and the cute one coming on to me is married. I guess I just got to get out there more. Hmph. :mad:
 
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LOL, are you sure your friend wasn't pulling a mean prank on you?
 
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KontrollerX said:
LOL, are you sure your friend wasn't pulling a mean prank on you?
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No, and you can be sure I asked her if she was sh*ttin' me numerous times. Plus it was verified by other girls there that know her and said I better not try anything with her.

Well, I'm going to try to make it out to beach today, hopefully I can find some new prospects.
 
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I've found that married women flirt the most, followed closely by girls in long LTRs.

I think that they just want to make sure they're still attractive.
 
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very true, Serialized

f*cking hors

and imo, you shouldn't have kept dancing/flirting with her. You were right to be pissed, and you shoulda just dropped her. I know that's kinda hard to do sometimes.
 
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Don't give your precious attention to undeserving AWs. ESPECIALLY IF they are fvcking MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Imagine if that WAS YOUR Freakin' WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Man Rule no 32:
Don't give attention to Attention Wh0res.

Man Rule no 2:
Don't fvck around with another Man's Wife. She could have been your Wife......
How would you feel, fvcker??!
 
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Man Rule no 32:
Don't give attention to Attention Wh0res.

Man Rule no 2:
Don't fvck around with another Man's Wife. She could have been your Wife......
How would you feel, fvcker??!
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Do you have the whole list? I'd be interested in reading the other rules.
 
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Obsidian said:
very true, Serialized

f*cking hors

and imo, you shouldn't have kept dancing/flirting with her. You were right to be pissed, and you shoulda just dropped her. I know that's kinda hard to do sometimes.
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Keep in mind she never revealed her status to me the whole night. I found out from my friend, not because she told me. I don't even recall seeing a ring on her finger, though I was too drunk to really be paying attention anyway.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Interceptor said:
Don't give your precious attention to undeserving AWs. ESPECIALLY IF they are fvcking MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Imagine if that WAS YOUR Freakin' WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Man Rule no 32:
Don't give attention to Attention Wh0res.

Man Rule no 2:
Don't fvck around with another Man's Wife. She could have been your Wife......
How would you feel, fvcker??!
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Relax dude, it's not like I made out with her, I only danced with her.
 
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speakeasy said:
Relax dude, it's not like I made out with her, I only danced with her.
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Well, I think you did the right thing about not taking it further.

Why fool around with a married chick? It's too easy to find a single chick to fool around with, to deal with married ones.

As men, (and I know we don't owe each other a damn thing), we should respect each other, at least for being men, and not f*ck around with each other's wives.
 
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Mr.Positive said:
As men, (and I know we don't owe each other a damn thing), we should respect each other, at least for being men, and not f*ck around with each other's wives.
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Even if we don't respect each other, don't fvck with other's wives just to avoid the drama and hassle that would follow. :D

Just wives in general. Don't even be friends with them. Don't talk to them, or look at them!! ITS CHEATING! CHEAAATING!!

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*ahem*
 
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speakeasy said:
The other was this cute blonde girl who was making me drinks and giving me the look and IOIs.
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Women, especially married women, do that often.


It's like fishing. They let you bite, and once you bite, they let you know they married. Big a55 ego boost for her.


Trick is to not take that I'm married thing up your a55 and proceed to fvcking her. So you could have the last laught.
 
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Ok, so now I just logged into my myspace page and see that the married chic sent me an email. She found my page through a mutual friend. This is getting interesting.
 
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