"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

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Anyone Else Doing it? Summer Study at the University of California Los Angles?

Q.1. I'm from Australia so I'd appreciate if you guys can confirm - are American campuses basically 'dead' during summer??? cos u guys go to Cancun or home etc?

Q.2. For an out-of-towner [in fact - out-of-country-er hah] what are the pros and cons of staying at a dorm versus staying in an apartment close to the college?

I'm selecting accomodation right now [online] and I'm deciding which one will be more conducive to a great time!

Thanks for any advice!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by decisive
Anyone Else Doing it? Summer Study at the University of California Los Angles?

Q.1. I'm from Australia so I'd appreciate if you guys can confirm - are American campuses basically 'dead' during summer??? cos u guys go to Cancun or home etc?

Q.2. For an out-of-towner [in fact - out-of-country-er hah] what are the pros and cons of staying at a dorm versus staying in an apartment close to the college?

I'm selecting accomodation right now [online] and I'm deciding which one will be more conducive to a great time!

Thanks for any advice!
awesome bro!

how did u get into school over in the states? would be an awesome oppurtunity..
 

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Re: Re: UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

Originally posted by quest
awesome bro!

how did u get into school over in the states? would be an awesome oppurtunity..
:) it's summer school so there's basically no admission criteria. But i've still gotta pay



heh, thanks dude -

I'm going during the US summer which is [you're aussie right?] our winter and hence our uni mid-session holidays.

Absolutely no one except my parents know I'm gonna go - i'm just gonna disappear.

I'm doing it cos I feel like an adventure!
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
i would stay in a dorm....you'll meet a lot of people and if you're in an apartment it'll be lonley if you dont know anyone.

hhaahah thats funny, not everyone goes to cancun, and with a school like UCLA it wont be dead over summer.


hah, I suspected I was making general assumptions ... "the real cancun" and all

Thanks for the advice!
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Re: Re: Re: UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

Originally posted by decisive
:) it's summer school so there's basically no admission criteria. But i've still gotta pay



heh, thanks dude -

I'm going during the US summer which is [you're aussie right?] our winter and hence our uni mid-session holidays.

Absolutely no one except my parents know I'm gonna go - i'm just gonna disappear.

I'm doing it cos I feel like an adventure!
thats nuts!
want to take a buddy!?
:)
yeah i'm aussie, melbourne.
so you're only going over for a month or so i assume (mid-session holidays) after going there, would it be possible to stay on do you think?
i'm so jealous!

guess ur pretty cashed up to be able to do that though.
 

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:D I always wanted to do that, but it would be DAMN expensive. I recon it would be crazy, yer what are you doing after it ?? Coming back ??:cheer:
 

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dorms then

Jjiza - yup, I'm coming back ...

Ok,

seems like Dorms are the way to go - thanks ppl
 

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I got my masters degree from UCLA last year. While I was there all of my classmates had apartments. Their apartments were very nice. I'd suggest getting an apartment.
SB;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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