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UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

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Anyone Else Doing it? Summer Study at the University of California Los Angles?

Q.1. I'm from Australia so I'd appreciate if you guys can confirm - are American campuses basically 'dead' during summer??? cos u guys go to Cancun or home etc?

Q.2. For an out-of-towner [in fact - out-of-country-er hah] what are the pros and cons of staying at a dorm versus staying in an apartment close to the college?

I'm selecting accomodation right now [online] and I'm deciding which one will be more conducive to a great time!

Thanks for any advice!
 

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Originally posted by decisive
Anyone Else Doing it? Summer Study at the University of California Los Angles?

Q.1. I'm from Australia so I'd appreciate if you guys can confirm - are American campuses basically 'dead' during summer??? cos u guys go to Cancun or home etc?

Q.2. For an out-of-towner [in fact - out-of-country-er hah] what are the pros and cons of staying at a dorm versus staying in an apartment close to the college?

I'm selecting accomodation right now [online] and I'm deciding which one will be more conducive to a great time!

Thanks for any advice!
awesome bro!

how did u get into school over in the states? would be an awesome oppurtunity..
 

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Re: Re: UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

Originally posted by quest
awesome bro!

how did u get into school over in the states? would be an awesome oppurtunity..
:) it's summer school so there's basically no admission criteria. But i've still gotta pay



heh, thanks dude -

I'm going during the US summer which is [you're aussie right?] our winter and hence our uni mid-session holidays.

Absolutely no one except my parents know I'm gonna go - i'm just gonna disappear.

I'm doing it cos I feel like an adventure!
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
i would stay in a dorm....you'll meet a lot of people and if you're in an apartment it'll be lonley if you dont know anyone.

hhaahah thats funny, not everyone goes to cancun, and with a school like UCLA it wont be dead over summer.


hah, I suspected I was making general assumptions ... "the real cancun" and all

Thanks for the advice!
 

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Re: Re: Re: UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

Originally posted by decisive
:) it's summer school so there's basically no admission criteria. But i've still gotta pay



heh, thanks dude -

I'm going during the US summer which is [you're aussie right?] our winter and hence our uni mid-session holidays.

Absolutely no one except my parents know I'm gonna go - i'm just gonna disappear.

I'm doing it cos I feel like an adventure!
thats nuts!
want to take a buddy!?
:)
yeah i'm aussie, melbourne.
so you're only going over for a month or so i assume (mid-session holidays) after going there, would it be possible to stay on do you think?
i'm so jealous!

guess ur pretty cashed up to be able to do that though.
 

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:D I always wanted to do that, but it would be DAMN expensive. I recon it would be crazy, yer what are you doing after it ?? Coming back ??:cheer:
 

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dorms then

Jjiza - yup, I'm coming back ...

Ok,

seems like Dorms are the way to go - thanks ppl
 

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I got my masters degree from UCLA last year. While I was there all of my classmates had apartments. Their apartments were very nice. I'd suggest getting an apartment.
SB;)
 

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