"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

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Anyone Else Doing it? Summer Study at the University of California Los Angles?

Q.1. I'm from Australia so I'd appreciate if you guys can confirm - are American campuses basically 'dead' during summer??? cos u guys go to Cancun or home etc?

Q.2. For an out-of-towner [in fact - out-of-country-er hah] what are the pros and cons of staying at a dorm versus staying in an apartment close to the college?

I'm selecting accomodation right now [online] and I'm deciding which one will be more conducive to a great time!

Thanks for any advice!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by decisive
Anyone Else Doing it? Summer Study at the University of California Los Angles?

Q.1. I'm from Australia so I'd appreciate if you guys can confirm - are American campuses basically 'dead' during summer??? cos u guys go to Cancun or home etc?

Q.2. For an out-of-towner [in fact - out-of-country-er hah] what are the pros and cons of staying at a dorm versus staying in an apartment close to the college?

I'm selecting accomodation right now [online] and I'm deciding which one will be more conducive to a great time!

Thanks for any advice!
awesome bro!

how did u get into school over in the states? would be an awesome oppurtunity..
 

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Re: Re: UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

Originally posted by quest
awesome bro!

how did u get into school over in the states? would be an awesome oppurtunity..
:) it's summer school so there's basically no admission criteria. But i've still gotta pay



heh, thanks dude -

I'm going during the US summer which is [you're aussie right?] our winter and hence our uni mid-session holidays.

Absolutely no one except my parents know I'm gonna go - i'm just gonna disappear.

I'm doing it cos I feel like an adventure!
 

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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
i would stay in a dorm....you'll meet a lot of people and if you're in an apartment it'll be lonley if you dont know anyone.

hhaahah thats funny, not everyone goes to cancun, and with a school like UCLA it wont be dead over summer.


hah, I suspected I was making general assumptions ... "the real cancun" and all

Thanks for the advice!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: Re: UCLA Dorms or Apartment?

Originally posted by decisive
:) it's summer school so there's basically no admission criteria. But i've still gotta pay



heh, thanks dude -

I'm going during the US summer which is [you're aussie right?] our winter and hence our uni mid-session holidays.

Absolutely no one except my parents know I'm gonna go - i'm just gonna disappear.

I'm doing it cos I feel like an adventure!
thats nuts!
want to take a buddy!?
:)
yeah i'm aussie, melbourne.
so you're only going over for a month or so i assume (mid-session holidays) after going there, would it be possible to stay on do you think?
i'm so jealous!

guess ur pretty cashed up to be able to do that though.
 

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:D I always wanted to do that, but it would be DAMN expensive. I recon it would be crazy, yer what are you doing after it ?? Coming back ??:cheer:
 

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dorms then

Jjiza - yup, I'm coming back ...

Ok,

seems like Dorms are the way to go - thanks ppl
 

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I got my masters degree from UCLA last year. While I was there all of my classmates had apartments. Their apartments were very nice. I'd suggest getting an apartment.
SB;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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