"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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u dont have to be big to be LARGE!

frivolousz21

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you dont have to be big to big...I was talking to someone and I we were talking about people and life.

and she said to me...well you have always said you werent a big guy.

but when im with you...your prescence is big....

so I was thinking maybe there is some truth to that..
I see so many guys my height 5' 6" walk around and go unnoticed...and I walk around and am noticed like someone of a much larger stature...

remember, its not the size of the man that makes the man..its the man that makes the man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Soprano

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thats true

im really tall but depending on the day, my mood, etc. i'll either get noticed by everyone - or - not a single person will even see me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chillisauce

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6 ft isnt towering, its a good height.

when your 6'5 and like asian women, then you got a problem! :cry:
 
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