"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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u dont have to be big to be LARGE!

frivolousz21

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you dont have to be big to big...I was talking to someone and I we were talking about people and life.

and she said to me...well you have always said you werent a big guy.

but when im with you...your prescence is big....

so I was thinking maybe there is some truth to that..
I see so many guys my height 5' 6" walk around and go unnoticed...and I walk around and am noticed like someone of a much larger stature...

remember, its not the size of the man that makes the man..its the man that makes the man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Soprano

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thats true

im really tall but depending on the day, my mood, etc. i'll either get noticed by everyone - or - not a single person will even see me
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chillisauce

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6 ft isnt towering, its a good height.

when your 6'5 and like asian women, then you got a problem! :cry:
 
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