"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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u dont have to be big to be LARGE!

frivolousz21

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you dont have to be big to big...I was talking to someone and I we were talking about people and life.

and she said to me...well you have always said you werent a big guy.

but when im with you...your prescence is big....

so I was thinking maybe there is some truth to that..
I see so many guys my height 5' 6" walk around and go unnoticed...and I walk around and am noticed like someone of a much larger stature...

remember, its not the size of the man that makes the man..its the man that makes the man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Soprano

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thats true

im really tall but depending on the day, my mood, etc. i'll either get noticed by everyone - or - not a single person will even see me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chillisauce

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6 ft isnt towering, its a good height.

when your 6'5 and like asian women, then you got a problem! :cry:
 
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