"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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U cook or she cooks?

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Who's hotter when guy cooks meal at his place for girl? OR when girl cooks meal at her place for guy? What's hotter for the chick, what gets you pu55y faster?

I personally can't cook, but I say that I can because I do bbq, can make egs with bacon, microwave stuff, etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's best when it's done together. Major opportunities for kino. :up:
 

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just what i was going to say.

listen to him, he knows what hes talking about.

do it together, but make sure it isnt her telling you what to do. knowing how to cook isnt a bad thing by any means.
 

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Key is to have fun. You can learn recipes on the web just as easy as reading this message board. So never say you can't cook.

Agreed with others... putting something together for a meal turns it into an event. :)
 

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Plus if you're good, you can get her to stop by the store on her way over to pick up ingredients (i.e., free food). :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I usually cook for myself.... I can proudly say I'm a decent cook. When it comes to cooking for ladies, we either do it gother or I do it. Some women just can't cook. It is better to do it and eat the left-over in case she does not like it than to let her do the cooking and you won't find it ejoyable.
 

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amoka said:
I usually cook for myself.... I can proudly say I'm a decent cook. When it comes to cooking for ladies, we either do it gother or I do it. Some women just can't cook. It is better to do it and eat the left-over in case she does not like it than to let her do the cooking and you won't find it ejoyable.
I just order around the ones that can't cook. They can peel, chop, pour, measure, clean, whatever (good qualifier to see how she reacts to given directions). You've gotta use whatever opportunity you have available to learn how women operate. You shouldn't just do things for her entertainment, you've gotta find out if she's actually worth your time.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I just order around the ones that can't cook. They can peel, chop, pour, measure, clean, whatever (good qualifier to see how she reacts to given directions). You've gotta use whatever opportunity you have available to learn how women operate. You shouldn't just do things for her entertainment, you've gotta find out if she's actually worth your time.
That is great idea Francisco. Next time, she's washing the dishes while I do the cooking.
 

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amoka said:
That is great idea Francisco. Next time, she's washing the dishes while I do the cooking.
Don't forget, if you are doing the cooking, call her up before hand with a list of groceries for her to pick up when she's on her way over. You don't even need to tell her what you're preparing, she'll love the mystery. This is a regular staple in my arsenal.

You cook, and she buys the food and cleans up. You have tons of leftovers and you just send her home with a doggy bag. It may seem harsh but I stopped cleaning out my wallet to buy women dinner all the time. It's time for the tides to change!;)
 

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Women don't want a man who cooks. If he is good he is showing them up, in their traditional skill area. If he is bad, well, there can be no mercy shown, when he could have purchased something acceptable.

Once I made my GF take off her clothes and put on just a big plastic apron and make me my lunch. It is very traditional for a woman to prepare a meal for a man after sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ElChoclo said:
Women don't want a man who cooks. If he is good he is showing them up, in their traditional skill area. If he is bad, well, there can be no mercy shown, when he could have purchased something acceptable.

Once I made my GF take off her clothes and put on just a big plastic apron and make me my lunch. It is very traditional for a woman to prepare a meal for a man after sex.
If a woman can't handle a man that can cook he shouldn't be with her, who needs that kind of childish drama. And as for a woman preparing me a meal after sex, she can just throw a frozen pizza in the oven for all I care. There's many more important traits that a woman should have than being able to cook a meal.
 
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