You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I just order around the ones that can't cook. They can peel, chop, pour, measure, clean, whatever (good qualifier to see how she reacts to given directions). You've gotta use whatever opportunity you have available to learn how women operate. You shouldn't just do things for her entertainment, you've gotta find out if she's actually worth your time.amoka said:
Don't forget, if you are doing the cooking, call her up before hand with a list of groceries for her to pick up when she's on her way over. You don't even need to tell her what you're preparing, she'll love the mystery. This is a regular staple in my arsenal.amoka said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If a woman can't handle a man that can cook he shouldn't be with her, who needs that kind of childish drama. And as for a woman preparing me a meal after sex, she can just throw a frozen pizza in the oven for all I care. There's many more important traits that a woman should have than being able to cook a meal.ElChoclo said: