I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJF or John said:Let's all go to GNC and buy some Creatine pills and spend 8 hours a day in the gym, and we'll all get laid like this Dobe claims he does.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
blah, blah, blah..DJF or John said:Dobe of Getting Laid says,
"Heres one of the best tips youll get in this thread. Keep in mind, Im trying to help you by giving you a no bullsh1t assessment of reality so you can make better decisions to improve yourself."
For what? Have you not gotta the point that no one really listens to you?
"SS AND NLP BASED GAME DOES NOT WORK. DO NOT USE IT!"
Yeah here he goes. This is just an opening for someone to start talking about why NLP works, then the Dobe starts talking about Looks Matter again.
Let's all go to GNC and buy some Creatine pills and spend 8 hours a day in the gym, and we'll all get laid like this Dobe claims he does.
You obviously don't go to the gym very often. If you spend anywhere near 8 hours in the gym a day, you're losing WAY more muscle than you're gaining.DJF or John said:Let's all go to GNC and buy some Creatine pills and spend 8 hours a day in the gym, and we'll all get laid like this Dobe claims he does.
you have to forgive DJF, hes a real idiot. All of what you are saying is too much for him to grasp. He may have down syndrome.Call_Me_Daddy said:You obviously don't go to the gym very often. If you spend anywhere near 8 hours in the gym a day, you're losing WAY more muscle than you're gaining.
Even pro bodybuilders don't even spend near half as much time in the gym, and they do it for a living.
BTW, didn't you already get banned 5 or 6 times already for going psycho?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NLP - neurolinguistic programmingazanon said:I need a quick reminder of what NLP and SS (based games) stands for.
um, doesnt ss stand for Speed seduction, you know, Ross Jeffries' crap.TillTheEndOfTime said:NLP - neurolinguistic programming
SS - sexual state
yeah probably, I don't pay much attention to these techniques, I just remember what terms I hear get thrown around.God_of_getting_layed said:um, doesnt ss stand for Speed seduction, you know, Ross Jeffries' crap.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
In this instance I believe the SS reference was toward Speed Seduction.TillTheEndOfTime said:NLP - neurolinguistic programming
SS - sexual state
Call_Me_Daddy said:trobbing
pulsing
gazing
****ing
Be sure to roll your r's and draw out your e-sounds just the rrrright wayeee.rich Corinthian leather
Gotta work on rolling those damn "r's."Bonhomme said:Be sure to roll your r's and draw out your e-sounds just the rrrright wayeee.
Reeeccchh Corrreeeenthhian leather
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.