She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DJF or John said:Let's all go to GNC and buy some Creatine pills and spend 8 hours a day in the gym, and we'll all get laid like this Dobe claims he does.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
blah, blah, blah..DJF or John said:Dobe of Getting Laid says,
"Heres one of the best tips youll get in this thread. Keep in mind, Im trying to help you by giving you a no bullsh1t assessment of reality so you can make better decisions to improve yourself."
For what? Have you not gotta the point that no one really listens to you?
"SS AND NLP BASED GAME DOES NOT WORK. DO NOT USE IT!"
Yeah here he goes. This is just an opening for someone to start talking about why NLP works, then the Dobe starts talking about Looks Matter again.
Let's all go to GNC and buy some Creatine pills and spend 8 hours a day in the gym, and we'll all get laid like this Dobe claims he does.
You obviously don't go to the gym very often. If you spend anywhere near 8 hours in the gym a day, you're losing WAY more muscle than you're gaining.DJF or John said:Let's all go to GNC and buy some Creatine pills and spend 8 hours a day in the gym, and we'll all get laid like this Dobe claims he does.
you have to forgive DJF, hes a real idiot. All of what you are saying is too much for him to grasp. He may have down syndrome.Call_Me_Daddy said:You obviously don't go to the gym very often. If you spend anywhere near 8 hours in the gym a day, you're losing WAY more muscle than you're gaining.
Even pro bodybuilders don't even spend near half as much time in the gym, and they do it for a living.
BTW, didn't you already get banned 5 or 6 times already for going psycho?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NLP - neurolinguistic programmingazanon said:I need a quick reminder of what NLP and SS (based games) stands for.
um, doesnt ss stand for Speed seduction, you know, Ross Jeffries' crap.TillTheEndOfTime said:NLP - neurolinguistic programming
SS - sexual state
yeah probably, I don't pay much attention to these techniques, I just remember what terms I hear get thrown around.God_of_getting_layed said:um, doesnt ss stand for Speed seduction, you know, Ross Jeffries' crap.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
In this instance I believe the SS reference was toward Speed Seduction.TillTheEndOfTime said:NLP - neurolinguistic programming
SS - sexual state
Call_Me_Daddy said:trobbing
pulsing
gazing
****ing
Be sure to roll your r's and draw out your e-sounds just the rrrright wayeee.rich Corinthian leather
Gotta work on rolling those damn "r's."Bonhomme said:Be sure to roll your r's and draw out your e-sounds just the rrrright wayeee.
Reeeccchh Corrreeeenthhian leather
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.