"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tortendieb

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Can you please clarify the following things:

1) The tip I hear most is to breathe, relax, don't worry and just feel good. But if I do that, then I feel really good and come all the faster :eek:

2) Shallow thrusts: stimulates the head even more, bad idea

3) Think of crazy maths etc.: I lose my erection, which is a problem because I'm slightly wider than average and all girls so far were really tight. I actually can't continue to sex properly without a rock-solid one. Also I've been told I look really serious and like I'm not having fun (trying to concentrate on my math here!!)

4) Foreplay: Being out on a date, making out, foreplay, that stuff lasts for hours. When I'm finally having sex, I'm already at my limit when we're starting. What to do? I can go a second time, but actually sometimes I'm not very motivated :D With some girls I may even lose my erection. I'd like to be able to last like 10-20min in the first session.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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equinox654

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The biggest tip I can give you is knock a girl up a couple of times where she hammers you with child support. Bonus points if she's a total cvnt to you.

Then when you get away from her you should have a total mind block on cumming in the presence of a female.

I'm in decent shape and have to pound em until my chest hurts and I've rubbed blisters on it.
 

djthiago1

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Slow down when you're getting too excited, changing positions also works.
 

thekcguyme

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I bite my tongue real hard while clinching my ass if i am getting too close.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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