"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Typical advice on lasting longer...

Tortendieb

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Can you please clarify the following things:

1) The tip I hear most is to breathe, relax, don't worry and just feel good. But if I do that, then I feel really good and come all the faster :eek:

2) Shallow thrusts: stimulates the head even more, bad idea

3) Think of crazy maths etc.: I lose my erection, which is a problem because I'm slightly wider than average and all girls so far were really tight. I actually can't continue to sex properly without a rock-solid one. Also I've been told I look really serious and like I'm not having fun (trying to concentrate on my math here!!)

4) Foreplay: Being out on a date, making out, foreplay, that stuff lasts for hours. When I'm finally having sex, I'm already at my limit when we're starting. What to do? I can go a second time, but actually sometimes I'm not very motivated :D With some girls I may even lose my erection. I'd like to be able to last like 10-20min in the first session.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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equinox654

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The biggest tip I can give you is knock a girl up a couple of times where she hammers you with child support. Bonus points if she's a total cvnt to you.

Then when you get away from her you should have a total mind block on cumming in the presence of a female.

I'm in decent shape and have to pound em until my chest hurts and I've rubbed blisters on it.
 

djthiago1

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Slow down when you're getting too excited, changing positions also works.
 

thekcguyme

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I bite my tongue real hard while clinching my ass if i am getting too close.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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