la-migra-is-after-me
Don Juan
if i have a girl in the car that im trying to get with, should i buy some romantic oldies or something? any recommendations on type of music i should buy? slow jams? or anything from personal experience? thank you
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
types of music in car
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Hmmmm. Interesting.
Well, I'll entertain this anyways...
It's a toss up. Every girl is diff, so this isn't a blanket.
I normally try to MAX out time, meaning I turn it down.
OR...I let her flip and pick, see what's up. This, to me, isn't a time to try out her like or dislike of Slipknot. Normally girls don't like MOST guy music, but if you've got commonality of music, like Dave Matthews Band, or some rap, then put it in.
That bonding is awesome, AND...it links YOU to HER (nlp baby).
Can't say how many times a girl LINKED something to me, which is why HIGH emotions go well with YOU.
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The girl i'm seeing now likes DMB, so I put that on alot. Or Dane Cook. So she'll be listening and think of me, or a time together.
I had a girl that liked rock WAY back, Korn actually. She saw it and threw it then. We humped to rock; it was beautiful.
I'd say found out BEFORE hand, before the convo, ask about that music she's liking now, and if you got it use it.
OR introduce her to new stuff along the lines of what she's listening to, so you show you can SHOW her new things (which women love) and CREATE emotional memories and thoughts.
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As an example of MATCHIN/LINKING (nlp)...I had a girl, hb10, the elusive one...over last year during a MAJOR nor-easter. We got like 2 feet in a short time. But I picked this girl up who lives in my city anyways b/c I knew we'd get down. I really liked her, and a relationship wasn't gonna happen, but it'd be fun anyways. It was so nuts with the weather, she was freaking the whole time. I calmed her down, and when she stayed at my place it was like a "snow in."
The next day the snow was literally over her 5 foot height, and so nuts. She remembered the great sex and how crazy the whole scene was.
I'd get texts later on about when it's snowing she thinks of me and wants to come over.
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Hmmmm. Interesting.
Well, I'll entertain this anyways...
It's a toss up. Every girl is diff, so this isn't a blanket.
I normally try to MAX out time, meaning I turn it down.
OR...I let her flip and pick, see what's up. This, to me, isn't a time to try out her like or dislike of Slipknot. Normally girls don't like MOST guy music, but if you've got commonality of music, like Dave Matthews Band, or some rap, then put it in.
That bonding is awesome, AND...it links YOU to HER (nlp baby).
Can't say how many times a girl LINKED something to me, which is why HIGH emotions go well with YOU.
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The girl i'm seeing now likes DMB, so I put that on alot. Or Dane Cook. So she'll be listening and think of me, or a time together.
I had a girl that liked rock WAY back, Korn actually. She saw it and threw it then. We humped to rock; it was beautiful.
I'd say found out BEFORE hand, before the convo, ask about that music she's liking now, and if you got it use it.
OR introduce her to new stuff along the lines of what she's listening to, so you show you can SHOW her new things (which women love) and CREATE emotional memories and thoughts.
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As an example of MATCHIN/LINKING (nlp)...I had a girl, hb10, the elusive one...over last year during a MAJOR nor-easter. We got like 2 feet in a short time. But I picked this girl up who lives in my city anyways b/c I knew we'd get down. I really liked her, and a relationship wasn't gonna happen, but it'd be fun anyways. It was so nuts with the weather, she was freaking the whole time. I calmed her down, and when she stayed at my place it was like a "snow in."
The next day the snow was literally over her 5 foot height, and so nuts. She remembered the great sex and how crazy the whole scene was.
I'd get texts later on about when it's snowing she thinks of me and wants to come over.
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http://styldezinte.3ptp.com this is some europen video. but it looks way better than many hollywood productions. the funny stuff is that, the guys made it with digital still photo camera!
im listenin to that now. i think grils like if you can find some foreign good stuff
im listenin to that now. i think grils like if you can find some foreign good stuff
lets_do_this
Don Juan
I bought a winner soundsystem
DLS, xtant amplifiers and, Digital Designs Subwoofer...
It was great........................... for me.
but u know what? couple days ago, 1 of my amps fuse burned down.
Went on a date with no music, and guess what?
It was all for the better.
You can talk and think better without music.
Unless you seem uneasy or something because of the deafening silence. But imo silence is better.
It gives off that "im listening" and "romantic" mood when its just u and her. but maybe its just me?
DLS, xtant amplifiers and, Digital Designs Subwoofer...
It was great........................... for me.
but u know what? couple days ago, 1 of my amps fuse burned down.
Went on a date with no music, and guess what?
It was all for the better.
You can talk and think better without music.Unless you seem uneasy or something because of the deafening silence. But imo silence is better.
It gives off that "im listening" and "romantic" mood when its just u and her.
but maybe its just me?"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
No, that would be ridiculous.
Just throw on the radio and act like you don't care what's on. If the radio sucks then get some decent cd's.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
My strategy when it comes to music, is to diversify my pickings. If you have an Ipod or any other big mp3 player, fill it up with everything! Rock, Metal, Rap, RnB, Pop, Punk, even Country. If a girl wants to listen to your music, she'll ask to see your player, and then she can choose.
-Damian
-Damian