la-migra-is-after-me
Don Juan
if i have a girl in the car that im trying to get with, should i buy some romantic oldies or something? any recommendations on type of music i should buy? slow jams? or anything from personal experience? thank you
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
types of music in car
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Hmmmm. Interesting.
Well, I'll entertain this anyways...
It's a toss up. Every girl is diff, so this isn't a blanket.
I normally try to MAX out time, meaning I turn it down.
OR...I let her flip and pick, see what's up. This, to me, isn't a time to try out her like or dislike of Slipknot. Normally girls don't like MOST guy music, but if you've got commonality of music, like Dave Matthews Band, or some rap, then put it in.
That bonding is awesome, AND...it links YOU to HER (nlp baby).
Can't say how many times a girl LINKED something to me, which is why HIGH emotions go well with YOU.
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The girl i'm seeing now likes DMB, so I put that on alot. Or Dane Cook. So she'll be listening and think of me, or a time together.
I had a girl that liked rock WAY back, Korn actually. She saw it and threw it then. We humped to rock; it was beautiful.
I'd say found out BEFORE hand, before the convo, ask about that music she's liking now, and if you got it use it.
OR introduce her to new stuff along the lines of what she's listening to, so you show you can SHOW her new things (which women love) and CREATE emotional memories and thoughts.
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As an example of MATCHIN/LINKING (nlp)...I had a girl, hb10, the elusive one...over last year during a MAJOR nor-easter. We got like 2 feet in a short time. But I picked this girl up who lives in my city anyways b/c I knew we'd get down. I really liked her, and a relationship wasn't gonna happen, but it'd be fun anyways. It was so nuts with the weather, she was freaking the whole time. I calmed her down, and when she stayed at my place it was like a "snow in."
The next day the snow was literally over her 5 foot height, and so nuts. She remembered the great sex and how crazy the whole scene was.
I'd get texts later on about when it's snowing she thinks of me and wants to come over.
Next question?
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Hmmmm. Interesting.
Well, I'll entertain this anyways...
It's a toss up. Every girl is diff, so this isn't a blanket.
I normally try to MAX out time, meaning I turn it down.
OR...I let her flip and pick, see what's up. This, to me, isn't a time to try out her like or dislike of Slipknot. Normally girls don't like MOST guy music, but if you've got commonality of music, like Dave Matthews Band, or some rap, then put it in.
That bonding is awesome, AND...it links YOU to HER (nlp baby).
Can't say how many times a girl LINKED something to me, which is why HIGH emotions go well with YOU.
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The girl i'm seeing now likes DMB, so I put that on alot. Or Dane Cook. So she'll be listening and think of me, or a time together.
I had a girl that liked rock WAY back, Korn actually. She saw it and threw it then. We humped to rock; it was beautiful.
I'd say found out BEFORE hand, before the convo, ask about that music she's liking now, and if you got it use it.
OR introduce her to new stuff along the lines of what she's listening to, so you show you can SHOW her new things (which women love) and CREATE emotional memories and thoughts.
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As an example of MATCHIN/LINKING (nlp)...I had a girl, hb10, the elusive one...over last year during a MAJOR nor-easter. We got like 2 feet in a short time. But I picked this girl up who lives in my city anyways b/c I knew we'd get down. I really liked her, and a relationship wasn't gonna happen, but it'd be fun anyways. It was so nuts with the weather, she was freaking the whole time. I calmed her down, and when she stayed at my place it was like a "snow in."
The next day the snow was literally over her 5 foot height, and so nuts. She remembered the great sex and how crazy the whole scene was.
I'd get texts later on about when it's snowing she thinks of me and wants to come over.
Next question?
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http://styldezinte.3ptp.com this is some europen video. but it looks way better than many hollywood productions. the funny stuff is that, the guys made it with digital still photo camera!
im listenin to that now. i think grils like if you can find some foreign good stuff
im listenin to that now. i think grils like if you can find some foreign good stuff
lets_do_this
Don Juan
I bought a winner soundsystem
DLS, xtant amplifiers and, Digital Designs Subwoofer...
It was great........................... for me.
but u know what? couple days ago, 1 of my amps fuse burned down.
Went on a date with no music, and guess what?
It was all for the better.
You can talk and think better without music.
Unless you seem uneasy or something because of the deafening silence. But imo silence is better.
It gives off that "im listening" and "romantic" mood when its just u and her. but maybe its just me?
DLS, xtant amplifiers and, Digital Designs Subwoofer...
It was great........................... for me.
but u know what? couple days ago, 1 of my amps fuse burned down.
Went on a date with no music, and guess what?
It was all for the better.
You can talk and think better without music.Unless you seem uneasy or something because of the deafening silence. But imo silence is better.
It gives off that "im listening" and "romantic" mood when its just u and her.
but maybe its just me?"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
No, that would be ridiculous.
Just throw on the radio and act like you don't care what's on. If the radio sucks then get some decent cd's.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
My strategy when it comes to music, is to diversify my pickings. If you have an Ipod or any other big mp3 player, fill it up with everything! Rock, Metal, Rap, RnB, Pop, Punk, even Country. If a girl wants to listen to your music, she'll ask to see your player, and then she can choose.
-Damian
-Damian