la-migra-is-after-me
Don Juan
if i have a girl in the car that im trying to get with, should i buy some romantic oldies or something? any recommendations on type of music i should buy? slow jams? or anything from personal experience? thank you
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
types of music in car
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Hmmmm. Interesting.
Well, I'll entertain this anyways...
It's a toss up. Every girl is diff, so this isn't a blanket.
I normally try to MAX out time, meaning I turn it down.
OR...I let her flip and pick, see what's up. This, to me, isn't a time to try out her like or dislike of Slipknot. Normally girls don't like MOST guy music, but if you've got commonality of music, like Dave Matthews Band, or some rap, then put it in.
That bonding is awesome, AND...it links YOU to HER (nlp baby).
Can't say how many times a girl LINKED something to me, which is why HIGH emotions go well with YOU.
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The girl i'm seeing now likes DMB, so I put that on alot. Or Dane Cook. So she'll be listening and think of me, or a time together.
I had a girl that liked rock WAY back, Korn actually. She saw it and threw it then. We humped to rock; it was beautiful.
I'd say found out BEFORE hand, before the convo, ask about that music she's liking now, and if you got it use it.
OR introduce her to new stuff along the lines of what she's listening to, so you show you can SHOW her new things (which women love) and CREATE emotional memories and thoughts.
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As an example of MATCHIN/LINKING (nlp)...I had a girl, hb10, the elusive one...over last year during a MAJOR nor-easter. We got like 2 feet in a short time. But I picked this girl up who lives in my city anyways b/c I knew we'd get down. I really liked her, and a relationship wasn't gonna happen, but it'd be fun anyways. It was so nuts with the weather, she was freaking the whole time. I calmed her down, and when she stayed at my place it was like a "snow in."
The next day the snow was literally over her 5 foot height, and so nuts. She remembered the great sex and how crazy the whole scene was.
I'd get texts later on about when it's snowing she thinks of me and wants to come over.
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Hmmmm. Interesting.
Well, I'll entertain this anyways...
It's a toss up. Every girl is diff, so this isn't a blanket.
I normally try to MAX out time, meaning I turn it down.
OR...I let her flip and pick, see what's up. This, to me, isn't a time to try out her like or dislike of Slipknot. Normally girls don't like MOST guy music, but if you've got commonality of music, like Dave Matthews Band, or some rap, then put it in.
That bonding is awesome, AND...it links YOU to HER (nlp baby).
Can't say how many times a girl LINKED something to me, which is why HIGH emotions go well with YOU.
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The girl i'm seeing now likes DMB, so I put that on alot. Or Dane Cook. So she'll be listening and think of me, or a time together.
I had a girl that liked rock WAY back, Korn actually. She saw it and threw it then. We humped to rock; it was beautiful.
I'd say found out BEFORE hand, before the convo, ask about that music she's liking now, and if you got it use it.
OR introduce her to new stuff along the lines of what she's listening to, so you show you can SHOW her new things (which women love) and CREATE emotional memories and thoughts.
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As an example of MATCHIN/LINKING (nlp)...I had a girl, hb10, the elusive one...over last year during a MAJOR nor-easter. We got like 2 feet in a short time. But I picked this girl up who lives in my city anyways b/c I knew we'd get down. I really liked her, and a relationship wasn't gonna happen, but it'd be fun anyways. It was so nuts with the weather, she was freaking the whole time. I calmed her down, and when she stayed at my place it was like a "snow in."
The next day the snow was literally over her 5 foot height, and so nuts. She remembered the great sex and how crazy the whole scene was.
I'd get texts later on about when it's snowing she thinks of me and wants to come over.
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http://styldezinte.3ptp.com this is some europen video. but it looks way better than many hollywood productions. the funny stuff is that, the guys made it with digital still photo camera!
im listenin to that now. i think grils like if you can find some foreign good stuff
im listenin to that now. i think grils like if you can find some foreign good stuff
lets_do_this
Don Juan
I bought a winner soundsystem
DLS, xtant amplifiers and, Digital Designs Subwoofer...
It was great........................... for me.
but u know what? couple days ago, 1 of my amps fuse burned down.
Went on a date with no music, and guess what?
It was all for the better.
You can talk and think better without music.
Unless you seem uneasy or something because of the deafening silence. But imo silence is better.
It gives off that "im listening" and "romantic" mood when its just u and her. but maybe its just me?
DLS, xtant amplifiers and, Digital Designs Subwoofer...
It was great........................... for me.
but u know what? couple days ago, 1 of my amps fuse burned down.
Went on a date with no music, and guess what?
It was all for the better.
You can talk and think better without music.Unless you seem uneasy or something because of the deafening silence. But imo silence is better.
It gives off that "im listening" and "romantic" mood when its just u and her.
but maybe its just me?"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
No, that would be ridiculous.
Just throw on the radio and act like you don't care what's on. If the radio sucks then get some decent cd's.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
My strategy when it comes to music, is to diversify my pickings. If you have an Ipod or any other big mp3 player, fill it up with everything! Rock, Metal, Rap, RnB, Pop, Punk, even Country. If a girl wants to listen to your music, she'll ask to see your player, and then she can choose.
-Damian
-Damian