"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TylerDurden Phone Conference

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's up with the sudden Tyler Durden this and that lately?
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
After The Game came out people are realizing that he's the shyt.


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I don't want to take this thread too far off topic, but it completely changed my perception of Tyler, for the worse.

I never really read his sh*t. Infact, I haven't read very much from the gurus of the PUA world.

But he was my favourite, due me reading he was short, fat and red headed. I thought he must be awesome. And I didn't need much convincing since I loved his handle.

After reading the game though, I found I lost alot of respect for all of the guru's. While at the same time becomming alot more interested in them.

When I first read about project hollywood, I assumed that place was going to be rocking, the #1 place to be. It rarely had girls. I get as many girls to my wings house. And theres only 2 of us, and neither of us a gurus, and his parents live there.

I was also surprised that this all stayed underground before the game came out. I'm surprised that Courtney Love for example, didn't mention she was living with these guys in an interveiw. Surely it would have been very interesting to her to talk about.

-side note. I loved the mini papa's. In the couple of mentions they got, it always made me giggle. And Extramask, very funny.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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